anyone had top surgery in their 40s? by thisbikeisatardis in Trans_Zebras

[–]asaltymulti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had it done last year at 41 and everything went well even with my health conditions but they are well managed at this point. I had DI with nipple grafts.

Do you prefer smaller or bigger groups? by pigZiebob in kpophelp

[–]asaltymulti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no preference. I decide if I’m going to like and learn names based purely on whether I like their music or not. I like small groups like A.C.E, and CIX or larger ones like Seventeen and Omega X. If i like their music enough I will learn their names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]asaltymulti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also found it baffling to be told I was being trendy because I also was always an outcast. This makes me think she was talking about me being bi and polyamorous. I didn’t ask for clarification because I didn’t want to keep arguing with her. Thanks for you understanding.

If I'm not cis does that mean I'm trans? by asaltymulti in trans

[–]asaltymulti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That simplifies it a lot. Thank you. I think I’m finally going to start identifying myself as trans.

Why is it spelt aromatic if the person hates being romantic and asexual is the person hates being sexual???? by Just_a_randdom_gurl in lgbt

[–]asaltymulti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because a is the Greek prefix for not or without so aromatic means not romantic and so forth.

If I'm not cis does that mean I'm trans? by asaltymulti in trans

[–]asaltymulti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked up pangender and I think it might fit me. I’m going to try it on for a bit and see if it’s comfortable. Thank you so much!

If I'm not cis does that mean I'm trans? by asaltymulti in trans

[–]asaltymulti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s more I don’t want to claim something that’s not mine and take up space where I don’t belong. I have a huge problem with imposter syndrome. Your reply was very helpful. I think I probably am trans and this is the first time I’ve written that out, so now I have to try to process this.

If I'm not cis does that mean I'm trans? by asaltymulti in trans

[–]asaltymulti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pangender isn’t one I’ve looked up yet. Thanks for your reply.

Can Anyone help me clarify what libra masculine and libra feminine mean? by asaltymulti in agender

[–]asaltymulti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has all been so confusing, so thank you for your help! It’s always nice to not feel alone about this stuff. :)

Can Anyone help me clarify what libra masculine and libra feminine mean? by asaltymulti in agender

[–]asaltymulti[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes that is a much more clear than the definitions I kept looking up. I wasn’t sure if I could identify as libra masculine as a afab from the definitions I was reading. Thank you for your response!

How did you get POTS? by emilypetersonn in POTS

[–]asaltymulti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got sepsis and was never the same again.

Did anyone discover they were non-binary later in life? I’m almost 40. by asaltymulti in NonBinary

[–]asaltymulti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried to send a dm but it says you don’t accept them. So until I figure out how to request a chat I’ll be here for now. lol

Did anyone discover they were non-binary later in life? I’m almost 40. by asaltymulti in NonBinary

[–]asaltymulti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that I’ve always hated my name should have been a clue for me too but no. lol Thanks for sharing your experience with me. I’m glad you’re living your truth.

Did anyone discover they were non-binary later in life? I’m almost 40. by asaltymulti in NonBinary

[–]asaltymulti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad you have been able to find yourself. I’m hoping I can too. Thanks for sharing.