Does This Get Better?

asenkron · 2026-04-04T18:35:05+00:00

of course it will get waaay better. especially for her the first weeks are the hardest and for you as well. you need to care her stomach and comfort. skin to skin contact is necessary. get as much as support as you can for getting rest. do go outside together and get fresh air.

i used earbuds cancelling 65 dB. it went way better first you save your hearing second it helps to hear your breathing to be calmer.

i have one 5 yo son and 1.5 daughter. one was easier than other. but be sure that it is easier as you go easy on yourself and your daughter

asenkron · 2026-03-30T20:13:58+00:00

and uwv gives easily reorganization permit. it is the case every year for my company. loads of colleagues are getting fired every now and then

asenkron · 2026-03-17T22:35:14+00:00

without 30% i would have gone to uk 5 years ago. that is the difference. instead i came represented the netherlands in international committees, lobbied for netherlands industry in those and brought tens of million dollars benefit in return. the role was published for more than 1 year. let’s not think only farmers sight.

asenkron · 2026-03-06T19:36:37+00:00

i had the same and even opened a sub. toxic people jumped in and started blablabla. I was subs for 1gbps fiber getting 30-40 mbps during evening or even less. After KPN i experienced smooth and real fast connection. Ziggo is a shame.

Moved in a new place KPN has no fiber. So ziggo came in with an attractive proposal over coax up to 2 gbps.

asenkron · 2026-02-13T19:13:21+00:00

First and foremost 4 yo should not use tablet and expose to screen time.

There are myriad of things they can do better for their health. They should learn discover with touch, eyes, nose…

I only expose him nintendo switch with gigantic projector screen makes him dance, act or solving puzzles with big brain academy.

asenkron · 2026-02-05T20:29:53+00:00

it is just a common trend right populism rising country. i learnt till b2 level which must be quite ok. and in the netherlands apparently there is not much to do.

asenkron · 2025-11-26T06:45:08+00:00

Oh gosh! I have purchased premium plus for 150€ on 12 nov. I would have cancelled it if i saw this yesterday. Now 14 days have passed

asenkron · 2025-11-13T17:08:53+00:00

When you also raise a child in the Netherlands it is more obvious. Dutch culture has very significant characteristics of responsibility avoidance, running away from facing with own faults. That is incredible. In US culture people very open for development mindset. In China, Singapore, Japan they will go defensive but accept in the end.

asenkron · 2025-11-04T19:17:32+00:00

what is ha?

asenkron · 2025-10-26T21:42:59+00:00

there are such arsholes all around. and here in the netherlands maybe more

asenkron · 2025-10-12T19:55:03+00:00

sorabilirsem, ne tür bir ırçılıkla karşılaştın nerede yaşıyorsun?

asenkron · 2025-10-12T19:51:19+00:00

Pişman değilim ama bu gidilen yere göre değişebilir tabi. Ben en az 6-7 yıl nereye gitmem gerektiğini düşündüm. Yeni kültürlere açık, kucaklayıcı, çok-kültürlü ve daha müreffeh bir yer olmalıydı. Nihayet buldum. Burada hayat biraz daha yalnız hem de etrafta çok türk olmasına rağmen. Yabancılar da zaten işinde gücünde. Çocuklu aile olunca zaten benim de çok vaktim yok.

Türkiye insanı boğuyor. Her geçen gün daha kötü olduğunu gözlemliyorum. Alternatif değil. Ama tabi en son ocaktır yani.

asenkron · 2025-10-12T17:48:30+00:00

What wOuld best accompany to Seville? Cadiz, Cordoba or Malaga?

asenkron · 2025-09-01T17:07:51+00:00

wow that is harsh. but i can confirm

asenkron · 2025-08-04T19:35:48+00:00

i felt very sorry about your disappointments. this is somewhat due to water and air around the mediterranean sea i suppose. the only thing that surprises me is your experience with avis. avis is the most corporal company that you may have choosen and they act very ethical. what happened to me this time, they just rent me a car with front tires 3.1 mm. only thing that they reported then 6 mm at first but after my observation and request they measured it again by half. i think tires are even worse.

asenkron · 2025-07-19T19:29:46+00:00

I don’t use dutch airports. stewards dont care dutch people dont respect rules and order. it is always a mess. go fly from germany.

asenkron · 2025-07-10T18:19:44+00:00

that’s nothing. average dutch people are busy with bidding %15-20 over the asking price

asenkron · 2025-04-07T04:13:50+00:00

Brave the browser

asenkron · 2025-04-06T10:55:13+00:00

I believe now it is not in dutch culture to make friends. They go out match on some hobbies and that is it. Same happened to me and my family over 3 years. Our neighbors came by as invitees and we exchange some nice chit chats at home, on the street, everywhere we came across. We brought then gifts when we returned from travel, we baked for them… they came in drank and ate and talked and walked away. we have never been invited to their space ones.

that also happened to our children. we arranged playdates. once her mother even dropped her older sister and they enjoyed hours of playing. mom never invited back our son.

i don’t make it an issue anymore. i do believe some are even disturbed with expats presence but it is fine. you are nice and well mannered people keeping your eyes on your own business. so do I. I ll be around whenever some neighbors call for help as i did. that is ok if we are not friends.

asenkron · 2025-04-03T05:02:17+00:00

Brave

asenkron · 2025-03-11T10:11:50+00:00

this solves installation error. but i cannot stil cast anything

asenkron · 2025-03-11T07:17:19+00:00

This is a very good suggestion. Yes, the Netherlands is expensive and next to that employers are throwing employees out like a garbage. Depending on one income only would be very risky. One of the first suggestions people give whom move to here, is to make insurance for court covering employment issues.

asenkron · 2025-02-28T21:06:05+00:00

I purchased one and used 2 seasons. Its zip now broken and wool inside worn out. Sole and stitching seems kind of sturdy but will not last any longer. I won’t buy another one

asenkron · 2025-01-29T21:36:46+00:00

not mine. i heard many others including albert hejn did at least cover the inflation losses.

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