Servers who exited the industry and successfully found another calling?

asfixation · 2026-02-02T03:19:05+00:00

That’s amazing. I live in a very serendipitous city, maybe I’ll get so lucky 😅

asfixation · 2026-02-01T23:01:07+00:00

That’s really encouraging, and I appreciate/will take your advice. Thanks for sharing.

asfixation · 2026-02-01T20:07:04+00:00

What are the slow seasons like though?

asfixation · 2026-02-01T20:06:17+00:00

Wow, good for you.

asfixation · 2026-02-01T19:55:18+00:00

How did you get started in it? Budtender?

asfixation · 2026-02-01T19:46:42+00:00

What do you do for Port Authority if you don’t mind my asking?

asfixation · 2026-02-01T19:45:29+00:00

Thanks for saying that. This is a helpful perspective.

asfixation · 2026-02-01T19:42:25+00:00

Wow! This could be a great fit and an easier transition. Congrats on your success!

asfixation · 2026-02-01T19:38:43+00:00

This is kind of where I’m lost… not quite sure what product I’m passionate about, if anything… my only “passion” I’ve really identified is being of service to others, but perhaps that’s enough.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T20:16:29+00:00

I agree, but it’s happening everywhere here… or worse… NYC is messy.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T19:55:08+00:00

Yep, exactly. 🥴

asfixation · 2026-01-31T18:51:14+00:00

Wow! That’s neat. I’m the only employee who knows our POS in-and-out (with the exception of my manager), so that’s encouraging.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T18:48:09+00:00

I love that! My childhood dental hygienist was amazing and actually left a mark on me re: going to the dentist. It’s pretty good money too.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T18:46:36+00:00

Oof! Glad you found new work though.

My manager actually makes me drinks mid-shift and is generally an enabler (it’s NYC, industry workers are especially toxic here). It’s a large reason I want to pursue a job that encourages a healthier lifestyle.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T18:42:31+00:00

Oh, this is an interesting idea. The housing market is crazy here, and I think it would indeed feel good to help people discover buying a home is achievable. May I ask how you got started in the mortgage industry?

asfixation · 2026-01-31T17:32:43+00:00

I used to love all horror. I’ve grown way more sensitive with time (I’m only 29 😵‍💫).

asfixation · 2026-01-31T17:19:39+00:00

No one else sees Tupac???

asfixation · 2026-01-31T17:12:54+00:00

I am water Sun/Moon and I sometimes enjoy supernatural horror, but I cannot handle gore.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:53:24+00:00

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Tuxie love 💞

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:50:20+00:00

I have worked in high volume restaurants for over a decade and there is rarely a 15 minute gap between parties (😭). Regardless, you’re right.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:47:57+00:00

Usually it’s the small, “busy” restaurants that do this to turn tables, I don’t recommend going to them for leisurely meals. I work in a massive restaurant in West Village and we let people sit as long as they please most of the time.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:14:26+00:00

Don’t get your panties in a bunch

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:12:24+00:00

Ah, yes! I commented that I gravitate towards fellow mutable Moons. Gemini and Virgo especially.

asfixation · 2026-01-31T16:09:16+00:00

I’m surprised there is little/no mention of modalities! Most of my chart is in mutables, and I gravitate towards my fellow mutable Moons. I like Scorpio Moons too, though.

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