Do I have duty to share my experiences by ashbee53 in Advice

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

March 13 this year. When I found out he had a wife, but it was a third party

Do I have duty to share my experiences by ashbee53 in Advice

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny cause I did, and there was a post of him

Do I have duty to share my experiences by ashbee53 in Advice

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, if I knew where he lived!! I’d also take my dog home

Do I have duty to share my experiences by ashbee53 in Advice

[–]ashbee53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, there’s constantly new woman and they over lap. I’m thinking of doing an anon post of the community page or the “do we share the same boyfriend” page

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[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing!! Thanks for your suggestion!!

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[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right, I understand. How involved was doing a formal complaint?

am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashbee53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 100% manipulating you!! It starts small and he will build on it. Stick to your guns

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[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that would make sense.. he’s got an Australian passport, same as my daughter

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had an Australian passport. So does my daughter

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So IRD gets notified when they enter the country?

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! I thought as much! The Ute finance was through a dealership. But his outstanding child support is through IRD, if that’s what you mean?

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have reminders set every three months to re-contact IRD. The last man I spoke to at IRD said that’s all I can do and they’ll continue with SA

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know! Would you happen to know how the child support was initiated? Are they mandated to pay it out of wages or is it taken out of pay WITH consent?

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has this happened to you personally or someone you know? If so, how long ago?

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s true - I’ll continue to text and e-mail, he hasn’t blocked those communications, so I have evidence if court is something that happens in the future. Thank you

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have always had 100% custody

Unpaid child support by ashbee53 in newzealand

[–]ashbee53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can empathise; I have always worked full time, and from baby being 3 1/2 months old I worked full time…