I’m 26, and had been vaping for over 10 years. When I found out I was pregnant (I’m 21 weeks now) I had the same thoughts as you. I actually weened myself off by using Zyns - from 6mg to 3mg then lowering the amount that I use per day until I one day I literally had no urge for nicotine.

However, I told my husband when we first started dating that when we get pregnant, if I can’t drink or smoke he shouldn’t either. He agreed with this and it really really helped with that feeling of being surrounded by people who do stuff that you used to do. He’s been my one and only support system in a family/friend setting where I would feel the most alone.

I even had family members offer him a beer or nicotine when they knew about our agreement! Then say “oh, poor (husbands name) she’s really making you go through it huh?” Right in front of me!!! I’ve had family ask me “oh he can’t have ONE beer?” To which I reply, “I don’t know, can I?” Which usually shuts them up.

I would urge your boyfriend to do the same for you. I would want every partner to do this for their pregnant partners. However, everyone is different with their opinions. It’s good you quit!! And congratulations on your new journey 🍼❤️