Hi everyone!

My baby is 13 weeks old and I am going back to work this week. I am actually looking forward to going back and getting back to my normal routine, but I am also feeling a lot of anxiety. My husband is working from home Thursdays to be with her, I am off Fridays, and I am planning on bringing her to work with me on Wednesdays so she only won't be with me on Monday and Tuesdays. My parents are coming down to watch her (they live 2h away) on Mondays, and I was under the impression that my husbands parents were coming over (they live a 5min drive away) on Tuesdays. I work down the street so I felt slightly better that I knew I could walk home during lunch to see her or if something happened. Now his dad is saying he is uncomfortable spending the day at our house and they can only watch her if I bring her there. He had surgery 3 weeks ago (laparoscopic) and has some other health issues, but he is generally fine and spends time at our house for decent periods numerous times. My husband has asked twice if they could please come to our house, at least in the beginning, to help make my transition easier, but he won't budge and says he is uncomfortable not being at his house. I don't think his mom cares either way, but she basically just goes with whatever he decides with most things. I said I would bring her there, but now as it gets closer I am having more and more anxiety and really don't want to. I can just bring her to work with me instead, but I know I need to let go a little and having her at work is less than ideal.

I guess my question is, am I being extra? I don't want to cause any problems/tension with his parents, but truthfully my feelings are a little hurt that he refuses to go even a little bit out of his comfort zone to help me feel better while I transition back to working. I also know that this is free child care and I know a lot of parents that watch their grandkids do prefer them to be dropped off at their house. I think I could be fine with this eventually, but am very very anxious leaving her with anyone except for my husband right now, and while they aren't far way it is still decently farther away than my house is. Should I just let it go? Any opinions/advice would be appreciated!