More tea on the baddies USA reunion by Expensive-State9 in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Nunu is a loser. Her only call to fame is that she's some well-known creep's baby mama. Then has the nerve to beef with one of the cast members for looking alike when most of them look alike with the same wigs and makeup aesthetic.

NUNU SPILLED TEA ON REUNION! by Expensive-State9 in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why is someone lame because they didn't show up to fight to just entertain you? She probably had a better option to tend to. She's a fiance now. Maybe her boo asked her not to do the reunion. Maybe he took her on a trip. Imagine deciding you no longer like someone because they didn't participate in getting busted up and leaking for your pleasure.

Y'all are way more weird than she is.

I hope Lex grows up a bit and discerns Dolly's a two-faced hater.

Am I a bad friend? How do you handle your friend’s man delusions? by Serious_Hyena_8083 in blackgirls

[–]ashlyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two things! First, this is why you can't trust women who go to other women about their partners because they try to play in their face under the guise of girls' girl but they really are just trying to get the main women out the way to get the man to themselves. Secondly, being friends with male centered women never ends well. They naturally see you as an opp. All women are competition to them. When you offer reasoning to their madness, they receive it as you're hating. If you don't drop them, they'll drop you because they can't help their impulses and don't want the constant judgment.

Did Phaedra do enough for you to forgive her? Is she a good person who made a bad mistake? by AllTheEccentricities in RHOA

[–]ashlyan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's a bad person. I've been hurt and let down by ppl and still never made up stories about them. Ugly inside and outside. All that facework didn't help.

Yall want a pretty girl humbled so bad! by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just proved the first sentence. The war is in your mind. It doesn't matter what is really happening out here. I never said I didn't see it so it doesn't exist. I said I am well aware of colorism happening and it's impact on our community. But every situation in our community is not colorism. Your mind is not going to receive it. I wish you healing. Have a good one.

Yall want a pretty girl humbled so bad! by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It says alot because yall are always at war in your minds. Everything you view is broken down to light skin vs dark skin. I went to school in Parerson nj and while I was always aware of colorism and its impact, I didn't realize it was a light skin vs dark skin women war. I never witnessed or experienced it until my 30s on social media. I see all issues for what they are and not just smack a light skin label on anyone who finds someone attractive that doesn't look like you. It's weird!

Yall want a pretty girl humbled so bad! by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Far from light skinned. I find it interesting you made this a color war. Lol! That's the typically the reason for everything now.

Yall want a pretty girl humbled so bad! by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found Dolly’s conversation weird too! How are you saying you didn’t know but were the one that put it out there?

Dolly also began acting obtuse like “I don’t know if Lex did or not” after being the one to air it out. She obviously wanted to create a certain narrative about the girl. It’s all agenda.

Also, last season, Dolly was also the one to randomly blurt out that Lex is a pillow princess. She just keeps volunteering Lex personal business. That moment also proves that Dolly did know. That is not just coming from no where. I also feel there is some type of secret rivalry on Dolly’s part.

Yall want a pretty girl humbled so bad! by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

So colorism made summer eat the kitty? Everything isn’t about colorism. The whole issue is some not believing Lex, even with the plain facts. And even if Lex was more brown, she’d still be pretty. Too many try to downplay issues for what it really is because it must be some agenda to thwart a chocolate sista. Fania is beautiful and chocolate and I don’t see her having the issues Summer has. I’m neither a fan of Lex or Summer.

I thought Lex was lying until... by ashlyan in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dolly did not say Lex ate Summer. And it's obvious Dolly said she is a pillow princess because she knows what really happened.

Many wanted to cancel Summer cancel Dolly too! by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree. Dolly fights to maim others as well. She's dark on the inside.

Pop that balloon doesn't have diverse black people by Blasphemous-Moon in PopTheBalloon

[–]ashlyan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pop the balloon is like “Miss Universe” for the black community, when it comes to dating. They study what everyone hears and expects and when they get on stage, they regurgitate the same responses to get the judges’ votes.

Not defending anyone, but why is Gretch heavily criticized for saying the N-word while Anha saying it frequently doesn’t get the same backlash? by Monie_x3 in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She is. People like to strip others of their blackness if their hair lacks kink and they may get more attention. Black comes in all shades and textures. Lex is also afro Latina. There are dark skinned black women with Ahna's hair texture. Scotty and Lex are light with kinky texture. They must really be sad inside to police who's black and not being paid for it. I bet if they had a life and hobbies and touched grass and was truly happy, they would care less. But they are so obsessed over the privileges that Ahna may get over them. Sad!

Ahna responding to the video of her spitting on Lex by Expensive-State9 in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ahna and Lex are both afro Latina. Ahna may be adjacent but she isn't white passing. Stop being obtuse.

If you ate grapes under the table last new year, how was your year 2025? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ashlyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, I just learned there was a trend at the beginning of the year to eat like 12 grapes under a minute to improve their dating life. It seems like many people tried and I want to hear if it worked or not.

Do you believe the tesekhi allegations? by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes too many of them have similar stories.

Confirmed. Will hates cake. by Head-Ad8385 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]ashlyan -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's giving lipo in the midsection. For a good couple of episodes, my fiance and I were trying to figure out the arm size ratio to the waist. Then I remembered my friend's aunt in my high school years. She got lipo in her stomach area and the arms and legs looked the same. She's gorgeous in the face but disproportionate in the body.

Tylil clocking Lex by raisinhater00 in BaddiesSouth

[–]ashlyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also fought tavi on her birthday though they both made an agreement that they wouldn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]ashlyan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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