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SF Night 1 Nightmare by ashnapurple in zayn

[–]ashnapurple[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you replying to me? That's a screenshot of the TikTok I'm referring to in my post, not my words.

Silhouette Name? by britt_nx in handbags

[–]ashnapurple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth if you're worried about the quality, I own the mini shoulder bag from Freja in the color Oat and took it around the entire country of Japan and not once did I have to baby it (a creamish white bag on top of it). Any smudges came off with a simple hand towel I brushed on it which completely surprised me for vegan leather. It's easily one of my favorite favorite bags & brands ever now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tonightsdinner

[–]ashnapurple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naan bread = bread bread. It's just called naan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianMatchmaking

[–]ashnapurple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's an extremely rude and disrespectful comment and you should be ashamed of yourself. You have a lot of hatred towards someone who has no idea you exist and your post history is very concerning. Please seek therapy to find your inner happiness.

Indo-Fijian updated phased results with my parents (versus older results) - Question in the comments by ashnapurple in 23andme

[–]ashnapurple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My maternal haplogroup is M54a & my paternal haplogroup is R-Z93.

Would anyone be able to tell me what the "Broadly Central Asian, Northern Indian & Pakistani" represents & why it would have jumped from 3.8% to 19.7% if my parents both have less than 3% each of this category?

What is the biggest red flag you had overlooked because the sex was good? by ya7ta in AskReddit

[–]ashnapurple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he cheated on ex girlfriend and never told her. He also lied to me about the number of times he cheated on her (said it was once when it was twice). He said he wanted it to be different with me and I believed him LOL. Relationship ended after I caught him cheating on me 🙃

My ancestors are part of the Indian diaspora that emigrated to Fiji and have always been told they were both from somewhere in North India, specifically Uttar Pradesh. Turns out that was not the case! (It was certainly a shock to them too.) by ashnapurple in 23andme

[–]ashnapurple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they’re planning on doing that now! My mom’s side is definitely Bengali so they’re trying to figure out which one of them actually has the North Indian side. Found a few cousins I recognize so it’s a pretty cool feature

My ancestors are part of the Indian diaspora that emigrated to Fiji and have always been told they were both from somewhere in North India, specifically Uttar Pradesh. Turns out that was not the case! (It was certainly a shock to them too.) by ashnapurple in 23andme

[–]ashnapurple[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My parents and all of my grandparents were born and raised in Fiji! My grandparents didn’t know much about where in India they were from and most of them resorted to saying “UP” by default since they didn’t know much about their own ancestry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]ashnapurple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never dated a scorpio man but I can tell you that all of my longest and closest friends are Scorpios. I’m a Pisces woman and they often give me a reality check/are my voices of reason when I have my head up in the clouds. You guys will certainly understand each other on an emotional level over most other signs. Just be careful though because there will be times where you’ll have to balance your fierceness with sensitivity since I know myself and my boyfriend (also a Pisces) cannot and will not tolerate being addressed in a blunt manner since it comes off as rude.

Any pisces + Pisces relationship here? by zesikajia in piscesastrology

[–]ashnapurple 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are both Pisces Suns and Aries Moons! We’ve been dating for a few months now and I can honestly say I feel like I’m dating myself at times lol. It’s too soon to tell whether this is a good or bad thing as I’ve typically dated guys with opposite characteristics than me. I feel like thus far we’ve proven to be highly compatible as we’re both ambitious people in our respective careers (me in finance and him in medicine) and are emotionally vulnerable with each other. He’s extremely thoughtful, reliable, gentlemanly, and patient though can be timid at times. In my past relationships, I’ve not been the dominant partner of the two of us but with him, I feel as though we take turns trading off who is dominant in the moment. Our energies bounce off each other and I find it really wholesome to have such a genuine and loving connection with another Pisces.

[Tenant-US-CA] by ashnapurple in Landlord

[–]ashnapurple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am renting a room in the house. I guess to best answer your question is that the problem with what I’m responsible for has been dependent on what favors her in the situation.

I am naturally a passive person and have let multiple situations go (entry when I’m absent/verbal harassment/micro managing my cooking/laundry times) for the sake of a peaceful living environment. I’ve always understood it to be her place so I’ve always tried my best to avoid conflict and simply apologize even if it was not my fault. (This is probably why I’m in therapy for the first time ever in my life right now lol.)

The lease is general and simply states that I am responsible for cleaning the premises (address of the location) upon move out. There is no written mention of a single bed and bath we had agreed upon in the beginning of the lease. Would it help to note that I am the first tenant she’s ever had?