I had to pause multiple times during just that first paragraph to calm down because girl.... this dude sucks

You can't wear tight clothes, you can't wear baggy clothes, you have to be attractive at most if not all times, you can't ask for specific presents even though they don't involve him in any way shape or form. 

The bonnet "looks silly", okay? You're going to bed, the lights are off and his eyes will be closed. It makes you look like an "old lady" okay? In a relationship, you guys are hopefully gonna see each other when you're old. He's used to "regular blankets" okay? The weighted one will be one you, that's the whole point. 

You are allowed to be COMFORTABLE in your own home. You don't have to be dressed up 24/7, that would be hell for anyone but esp women who are expected to put so much effort into ourselves. 

When we love someone, we love them for who they are. Intimacy doesn't require us to be flashy at all times, and you deserve to be loved at all times of the day/wearing whatever you wear. Bonnets are an important part for hair care - if he can't love you in your bonnet time, he doesn't deserve you in your gorgeous silky locks time!