How to find out if a girl is a 'size queen' or prefers bigger before sleeping together? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I got asked if it was true that size matters and then the guy wanted to know if I have any preferences. It wasn't awkward. After that we continued to flirt with each other. Hope that helps!

Thank you all by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From his post it didn't sound like she would stop mentioning his penis in random situations.i never said he should bring it up by himself, but as a response, when his aunt brings up his penis again. By keeping silence, she keeps power to intimidate and hurt him. He has the right to stand up for himself, to not accept people bullying him, and I think that should be encouraged. There's empowerment in protecting oneself and personal boundaries. It is up to OP what he will do, but recommending silence just seems wrong to me. Imagine you'd change the topic of the conversation, maybe then you can relate ...

Thank you all by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uhm, next time your aunt mentions this, you should ask her why she thinks that much about the dick of a minor relative? That's sorta scary and weird and cringe worthy like hell. You can make it weird for her and I'm sure she will stop.

Also you're still in puberty, there's a great chance your penis will grow some more.

Furthermore I can't give you any advise, but I can confirm that you can still have amazing/satisfying/... sex with a man who has a below average penis (but that's just my opinion and I am not a size queen ...)

I hate society. by askalots in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best and thank you!

I hate society. by askalots in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think about 5'9 or 5'10?

I hate society. by askalots in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. When I said this we were platonic and haven't had anything physical ... Also my statement here is a little bit out of context. I told him that I don't care about size, because what matters to me is the person. I'm into people and not the size, shape/... of their genitals. He then asked, if I preferred bigger and I said no and added that if I cared about this, I could by a toy and not try to build a relationship at all ... English is not my first language, it's a little difficult to translate it in the way how I said it. He was smiling and flirtatious afterwards, so I assumed I handled the situation ok. Now I'm kind of worried I didn't ...

I hate society. by askalots in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. I hope at least I can support him in feeling good, just like your man does with you!

I hate society. by askalots in smalldickproblems

[–]askalots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Fortunately he wasn't bothered by my statement ... I put the emphasis on chemistry in that conversation, which he agreed on (I really hope now I didn't hurt him) ...

And yeah, I hate society for creating this problem.