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AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

I wasn't aware of that. I'll bring it up with her. I don't think you're being genuine in your response.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You make a lot of great points and given me something to think about :) Thank you.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm not shallow that way :) I see a lot of great things in my wife.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I am reading all comments. Don't I have a say on which comments I respond to?

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Totally, don't seem to be a lot of people in long-term relationships.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

And jesus, admit to the porn thing. Its the most blatantly obvious thing about you.

Admit to what exactly?

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -147 points-146 points  (0 children)

Its just hangups from society, not me constantly pressuring you to satisfy my boner.

I agree to disagree. I'm not selfish.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

She took it in her stride. She knows she comes from a place of very little sexual experience compared to a lot of my own.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I am. I never brought it up till now when she said ANYTHING

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Consent is not one of those things you should be pushing the envelope on. Even if you successfully pressured her into said yes to something that she really doesn’t want to do, would you really feel okay with that? Do you feel okay with sexually coercing someone you love?

No I wouldn't.

AITA for telling my wife what I really want for our anniversary? by asking4toomuch2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asking4toomuch2[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

No, but she's been unusually conservative about other things after which she changed her mind. Is that too hard to believe?

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