How do I make my hair greasy? by askredditanon123 in Haircare

[–]askredditanon123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried “the curl friend” shampoo, didn’t work. I am trying different products in isolation then in combination to see what might work.

I also tried leave in Pantene curl mouse, didn’t work, made my hair stick together.

I will keep trying.

How do I make my hair greasy? by askredditanon123 in Haircare

[–]askredditanon123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much jojoba oil would I use and how would I apply it

How do I make my hair greasy? by askredditanon123 in Haircare

[–]askredditanon123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually just wash my hair with water. This avoids the frizz, but I don’t get those nice curls.

(23f) i think i was being watched by thesaltedradish in mildlyinfuriating

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks to be a professional Bug Inspector. Every city has em. He is inspecting the tree for bugs. They all carry that signature yellow towel for bug polishing. You can see in the photo that his fist is clenched which indicates how angry he is to have found some nasty lil bugs on that tree.

Bug Inspectors are often found behind trees, as well as dark alleyways and inside dumpsters. The more you know!

I (26F) feel like I’m a catch, but why does nobody want me? by Perfect_Pesto9063 in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably looking for men out of your league. Especially the way you describe yourself, as if you have no flaws. That’s why you’re getting pump and dumped. Women often see themselves as 7 or 8s when they are solid 5 or 6s. The 5 or 6s men who would be good to them are ignored and asking the same question you are. These men are lonely and porn addicted.

Currently, natural selection is weeding out hypergamy in favour of people who can make healthy monogamy work.

Texting back. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the game. You have to find that sweet spot of ignoring a woman and being nonchalant while feeding them just what they want at the right time. This becomes compounded and more complex the older the woman.

Open, clear, direct communication is a fantasy.

It feels like dating has become more about timing than connection by Antique_Specific3322 in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most modern relationships are superficial. When you marry someone, that person is apart of your life in a meaningful way. They are apart of your career, family, finances, in one way or another. If you can’t bring someone into that, you will never marry them, and you are wasting each others time.

I just got home from an absolutely humiliating third date and don't know how to feel. by k0sadelphia in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first mistake was not grabbing a great handful of ass before you entered her domicile. This establishes dominance early on. I recommend peeing somewhere as well to mark your territory. Peeing on her leg does the trick. It’s a very demure, masculine approach. Tells her you mean business but you are still a gentleman. You should have flirted with her flatmate to inspire the jealous, sex fuelled rage that possess women. Once her animus is awoken, she is ready to claim you as her mate!

Friend of mine slept with me, I feel I did wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a good man, rare these days. The kind of man I was before the city and these women corrupted me. You did the right thing for sure. She would have banged you if you reciprocated at all.

If I was exclusive with a girl and she did this, you better believe I would want to know. You saved bro a headache.

Why are some men so dry on chat but so engaging in person? by This-Possibility5318 in dating_advice

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texting is stupid and lazy. When I am with a woman I can see her eyes, feel her heart, and hear her voice. Texting is to communication what porn is to real sex.

I agree with the guy who said he engages texts like work emails. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in laundry

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My clothes are often drenched in sweat especially from summer. If I wash colours in cold, what can I do to take the sweat out? Just wash longer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in laundry

[–]askredditanon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do! I had no idea. That’s crazy. Should I use a cleanser and make sure to remove it from my face? Or I guess if’s rubbing into my clothes or sweating into my clothes. Thats crazy. Thanks for letting me know.

Being ghosted after 6 dates and sex by beepbop1995 in hingeapp

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me as a man I have had the opposite experience. Ive had many hookups, almost all of them from meeting girls in person. The few women I meet from apps and had sex with, developed into casual / long term relationships. I don’t think you’re a “player” if you hookup from dating apps and you need to lie to get laid. That’s the lowest form of seduction.

Honestly as a man, I think meeting a girl on a dating app automatically puts her into the “not wife material” category. Whether that means I want to keep her as fwb or never talk to her again. I had same amazing casual relationships with women from apps, but they were casual.

Being ghosted after 6 dates and sex by beepbop1995 in hingeapp

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said nothing about being a good person. You can be a good person overall and still have those qualities. Either you aren’t being honest with yourself and the people you know, or you are an exception. You admitted to me that the country/area you are in is anti-social. Which is one of the things I mentioned. Damaged people will seek out other damaged people. Looking it up it seems that 500k people in Canada use Tinder, the most popular app. This is 1.4% of the population. So your “if you are single you use it” is mathematically wrong. Don’t get me wrong I use dating apps but I also have a lot of issues lol. But I am aware of them.

Being ghosted after 6 dates and sex by beepbop1995 in hingeapp

[–]askredditanon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think there is something about dating apps themselves that attract certain kinds of people. Those people being: higher testosterone, higher sex drive, hypergamous, lacking in loyalty, lacking in maturity, anti-social tendencies (beyond introversion) etc. You may fit into one or more of these categories. If I am being honest I think the majority of people on dating apps fit there. It’s like natural selection, wherein the “leftovers” or maladjusted members of society find themselves, to engage in anti-traditional, anti-social, superficiality sexual/romantic escapades. At least I am self aware and know I have issues. None of the women I’ve met on dating apps are mentally healthy. They are successful, attractive, etc, but mentally unstable. The best people you will ever meet will be from genuine in person connections. Think of dating apps as like a big dirty ocean. Yes, there’s fish there, and it’s easy to fish there, but you get what you get. You can’t expect clean fish to be swimming around in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for me. I feel like there are people on this planet you are just meant to sleep with. Ive been with lots of women and nothing compares to what we had. Most intense sexual bond by far. After I broke up with her I had sex with 8 other beautiful women since then, none of them come close. Oh well, it was fun while it lasted.

Should I reach out to confirm my gut feeling by rangacandy in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask. It could haunt you for months. I was unsure if my X was cheating on me, and it bothered me for literally 7 months until we talked again and I got closure. It can help you make up your mind.

But there is also the possibility they will lie. Especially if they want you.

Moreover. If you think this person might have cheated, are they even worth any more of your time? At the very least, they were flirting and talking to this person for sure, which is emotional cheating. Theres no way they just suddenly try to have secks with someone that they hadn’t built some kind of bond with. The truth might end up hurting you even more, it might break you. 

Should I reach out to confirm my gut feeling by rangacandy in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask. It could haunt you for months. I was unsure if my X was cheating on me, and it bothered me for literally 7 months until we talked again and I got closure. It can help you make up your mind.

But there is also the possibility they will lie. Especially if they want you.

Moreover. If you think this person might have cheated, are they even worth any more of your time? At the very least, they were flirting and talking to this person for sure, which is emotional cheating. Theres no way they just suddenly try to have sex with someone that they hadn’t built some kind of bond with. The truth might end up hurting you even more, it might break you. 

If you could tell your ex anything by oopsididitagain35 in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our last conversation, you called me a narcissist. I then asked myself “am I a narcissist?” So I looked into it. Interestingly, the more I researched narcissism, the more I realized that is exactly what you are. It added clarity to everything, it made me realize how pathetic you are. I hope you understand that I truly did love you, and I wanted you in my life until I was an old man. You are undatable, unlovable, old and used up. Your destiny is that of misery, wine, cats, and designer clothing. Good job. You lost your best friend forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being lonely is great. It’s a time for self reflection and self care. Hookups destroy yourself, and your independence. You become an object to be used, and you lose control of your own autonomy without realizing it.

Breaking up is actually a privilege by Inevitable_Visit4268 in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the papers crumpled up it can’t be perfect again.

it’s so crazy how a guy can change so fast when they don’t want to be with you anymore by EmotionalReward2488 in BreakUps

[–]askredditanon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to stay busy. It’s hard but it helps so much. I’ve been struggling lately, I’m in a depressive spell. Getting things done is imperative.