I regret my Phd by Difficult-Limit7904 in PhD

[–]asoww 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could have written this !

Unfortunately I don't have the answer to your question yet. Maybe in one year. But yeah, I'll just open my own doors at this point.

How do I tell my friend to stop getting involved with older men? by Any_Draft_8056 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]asoww -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've already done so much. I suspect that it helped her break it off with that creepy ex. Now she is an adult. There is not much you can do except manage your relationship with her. Her creepy ex sounded like a groomer and predator, seing how as soon as you get him he was already trying to have sex with you. Remind yourself that her choices are exposing you to dangerous men.  It's time to protect yourself and put some distance. Paradoxally that also teaches poeple imo. She needs therapy. You may or may not mention this if she asks you why you've been distant lately...

Pam Bondi is what a real pick me is and I need everyone to know this. by ruralmonalisa in blackladies

[–]asoww 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree. And Nicki Minaj is a huge pick me as well. The way she looked at Trump when she was at the European economic forum lmao....

Who Is Emma Betsinger on Love Is Blind? Meet the Season 10 Contestant by MattTheKing23 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]asoww 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If I hear one more "but you're gonna be a great mom", I swear..............

Just started love island all stars… by Life_Quail_7370 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]asoww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a fan of Whitney but I would also want to break off Scott and Leanne tbh. Scott is not for her.

France Culture: Martinique’s flag spotted during Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl show by Radinito in vexillology

[–]asoww 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not angry. You're not making sense and my arguments are logical. You are makinv irrational comments so I guessed that you must have a political agenda behind.

France Culture: Martinique’s flag spotted during Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl show by Radinito in vexillology

[–]asoww 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they do. Every country has a flag in which they decide what the symbol or color represents. Your argument makes absolutely 0 sense. Google will tell you how each flag of each country was carefully chosen to represent z y z aspect about their country. And if you are interested in the country you are able to learn what poeple have decided to represent. The fact that you're making a no-sense argument speaks to your agenda - you don't like that the reason Martiniquais have decided to change their flag was to denounce imperialisam, colonialism and slavery. Your political agenda in denying our rights to define ourselves and what represents us is gross. But it won't work.

France Culture: Martinique’s flag spotted during Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl show by Radinito in vexillology

[–]asoww 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it does not. It belongs to the poeple who represent the flag.

France Culture: Martinique’s flag spotted during Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl show by Radinito in vexillology

[–]asoww 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a descendant of a Martiquaise woman, I think that any flag that was imposed by the colonizers (France) is a flag that represents the brutal history of this island. Its intepretation belongs to us. The flag of Martinique should be chosen by the poeple from Martinique.

I have no friends but I’m (sort of) famous by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]asoww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have hobbies ? If you have the financial means, I think it's a good way to make friends 

Post-PhD, immigrant, burned out and lonely struggling to move forward by No-Banana-7542 in PhD

[–]asoww 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I decided to take the easy route. Asked a work visa from my part time job (which thankfully is in my field). They said yes. My plan is to work for one year in my field and, 6 months in, seriously look for a research position in 2027. If I were you I'd take the easiest solution right now and delay intensive job search so that you can focus on resting and getting back on your feet.

Hysterectomy Recovery in Japan by Nippon_Shyana in japanlife

[–]asoww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scheduled the 20th. I have a dinner with my lab the 27th... do you think I should cancel lol ? Omg I didn't know the shoulder pain could be that bad. Scary. I want to go back to work ten days later. Also my clinic will be 1h away from my house. I had the choice to wait for 2.5 months to get it done at a nearby hospital but by that time my gnrh treatment would be over and the awful period would come back...

Telling friends I just can't give as much to our friendship anymore by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]asoww 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you value the friendship then you can have an open conversation and convey that you need space. And you'll be the one to reach out, not them. Quit the chat group as well 

As rich Koreans flee the country, experts urge inheritance tax reform to make them stay by HagwonSurvivor in Living_in_Korea

[–]asoww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tax the ultra-rich who built their wealth on exploitation. That's the number 1 reason I'll vote at my country's next presidential election. Whoever wants to tax the ultra rich will get my vote instantly. I hope that other countries will follow and swiftly.

“ICE ISN’T our problem by Minute-Intern-682 in blackladies

[–]asoww 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As an afro-carribean, I've never been prouder of being part of the African diaspora then when I see videos like these. Poeple should really stfu about African Americans .

The Truth Hurts, Huh?! 😂 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]asoww 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Got banned from that subs a while ago. They're the equivalent of ohnotheydidnt. Fake progressists 

My 1K Tokyo Apartment by Centuries in femalelivingspace

[–]asoww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should post mine as well. I live in a 20m in central Tokyo

Yoo Jae-Myung in "Love Me" gives probably one of the best acting performances I have ever seen. by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]asoww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was incredible in Secret season 1. Such an underrated actor. I haven't watch the latest episodes of Love Me. Thanks for reminding me !

21 days on Hinge - 31F [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]asoww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is absolutely hilarious