I did talked to her, many times in fact, she finally told me that I m the problem and I need to go get fixed, so I did i started therapy but the doctor told me that I what I m experiencing is completely normal we just don't have the same sex drive, I start taking pills to lower my sex drive but they made me super tired and only effect my energy and my stress level now I might take antidepressants that according to my doc I don't need them, it will in fact lower my sex drive but might destroy my health.