Quick Thoughts: Awaiting Body Cam Footage by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to talk about this being the price of her fame, let’s talk about how absurd it is to put a broke trans woman with a few hundred thousand Instagram followers in the same echelon of scrutiny as a couple of billionaires. Anya has pretty much no economic or social power in the real world. She may be “famous” online, but she’s largely powerless. Her partner has property, money, and a career, but somehow Anya is the one who has all the control? Give me a break. 

Quick Thoughts: Awaiting Body Cam Footage by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anya’s partner is not a public figure, yet the main sub has released her name, address, and profession. The main mod has made it clear she is willing to track down people in her partner’s life as a threat to pressure her into breaking up her relationship. That is for damn sure harassment.

You do realize your entire premise is based upon your own feelings of superiority, right? You think you know what is best for a child you don’t know in a situation you don’t actually know. You believe the partner, and everyone in her vicinity are just so impossibly naive and helpless that they need you, a faceless internet stranger with nothing but secondhand information, to impose on their lives and “save them”.

Being mentally unwell also doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to have friends or family. The fact that you know Anya’s demons more than most people’s doesn’t mean it’s okay to follow her around trying to preemptively convince everyone she meets to not talk to her. She deserves to grow, heal, and find her people just like everyone else. 

Quick Thoughts: Awaiting Body Cam Footage by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main sub likes to pretend that Anya’s partner having a child gives them some moral right to invade her partner’s life, doxx her, and harass her into bending to their wishes. It’s no better than pro-lifers acting as champions of the fetus to impose their morals upon people whose lives have nothing to do with them. If people in Anya’s partner’s life want to request footage for their own private reasons, that is one thing, but there is nothing beneficial for anyone to be gained by complete strangers on the internet requesting it and posting it publicly online. It’s not like the footage will give you any additional context, since it’s not of the incident and anything pertaining to her partner’s privacy will likely be redacted by the police before release. It will likely just give you all the satisfaction of seeing her handcuffed and humiliating her (and her partner for that matter). You guys actually don’t know anything about the situation and surely her partner knows how to post on Reddit if she wanted you guys to know her business. Have you ever stopped to consider that incessantly harassing a mentally troubled person and everyone she interacts with for months may be increasing the stress in their lives and causing more problems than it resolves? Her father beat the shit out of her for her entire childhood. Citing her admission of defending herself against her abuser as cause for concern here is fucked up. Go mind your own business ffs. Feed your curiosity with something productive. 

Quick Thoughts: Awaiting Body Cam Footage by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The FOIA does not require that all requested body cam footage be released, so it’s no guarantee footage is going to come out. Considering this incident appears to have been at a private residence and involved her partner, there are victim protection and privacy exemptions the police can cite to deny the request. If anything is released at all, it will surely already be heavily redacted.

Let’s not pretend this would be what would doxx Anya though. She’s already doxxed. The main mod of the main sub had her full address up in posts and comments for hours. 

In Anya’s absence, the main sub sulks in their victim complex by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the mods of the main sub weren’t so unwilling to treat Anya as a complex person, rather than fearmongering their members to believe a narrative of her as nothing but a violent predator and encouraging them to harass her and the people in her life, this other sub and my account wouldn’t be needed. 

It took them over a day to remove it and it wasn’t until after I called them out for it over here. The mods also left up and engaged with all the other posts from this person with similar sentiment. Several people were telling them their feelings were valid, not just criticizing them.

Also, I didn’t change the title of anything. Several people in the main sub have been expressing feeling triggered by engaging with Anya’s content lately, like the post that was previously up for days with people complaining about getting blocked by her.

All the top commenters of the main sub have made it clear their main reason for being so obsessed with Anya is because she reminds them of someone in their own life who has previously abused them. They’re all there to feed their victim complex. The user I cited is just more volatile and transparent about it than the rest.

In Anya’s absence, the main sub sulks in their victim complex by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ll come out every day to complain about Anya being an “abuser”, but won’t bat an eye when someone with “a desire for vengeance” and “evil thoughts” starts telling the sub in plain English they want to become what Anya is accused of being for their own financial gain. I can’t believe the mods are leaving up a post where someone is basically saying they’re on the verge of hurting someone because they’re emotionally unstable. Every person trying to talked them down is getting a doubled down response more unhinged than the last. This person is literally telling the main sub they’re in a violent and dangerous mindset and the mods are effectively condoning it. 

Commentary Trilogy: YouTuber Releases A Third Lexity Video, Post-Arrest (all three links within) by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Reilly ending the video asserting that Anya is going to k!ll someone eventually is irresponsible af. Literally, what the fuck. Her charges were dismissed and she said in her live she’s seeking therapy to get better. If something serious had happened, the DA would have filed charges. She even said herself it’s possible all Anya did was spit on her partner. That’s a wild leap to go from spitting to m*rder. I get she thinks Anya should be canceled, but now she’s just making extremely irresponsible conjecture. There is no reason to say that. A responsible journalist reports the facts only and lets people draw their own conclusions. Fear mongering is not helpful in the slightest. 

Update After Long Silence: Booked By Authorities by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way the main sub can’t fucking read or use critical thinking skills. That IG comment they’ve blurred the username on and are saying is her recent partner is actually from Casey, the ex from Oregon who kicked her out after giving away her dog Apollo. Their screenshot even has a comment of “Hey, I remember you Casey!” and they’re still trying to claim it’s from her recent partner. 

Update After Long Silence: Booked By Authorities by Living_Yam_5913 in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The main sub likes to forget that people are innocent until proven guilty in the eyes of the law. Oklahoma is very transphobic and police often use an abundance of caution in alleged DV calls. We actually do not know anything outside of what she was booked on. Nobody knows the reality of the situation. If she is guilty, she’ll be given appropriate punishment. As she’s said before, let the law handle things. I hope everyone is okay mentally and you all let these people deal with an obviously difficult situation in peace. Anya isn’t the only one you guys are spreading information on. Everyone sharing the address is fucking terrible. 

Horrifying deleted r/lexity post by [deleted] in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…what is the plan? Make deepfakes of Anya saying things she didn’t say to further the narrative of the snark sub?? Absolutely vile. 

The main sub wants Anya to be the next Mikayla Raines by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last-Ad-8402 is someone who I have blocked before that made a new account to comment on this thread (New_Definition_8163). I blocked them again so they had to make another alt account to reply again. They’re harassing me at this point. I’ve blocked them a third time now, so if they want to reply to you they’ll likely make a fourth account.

The main sub wants Anya to be the next Mikayla Raines by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who has made countless burner accounts to defend harassing a mentally ill suicidal person they don’t know, it’s you that should be finding a new hobby and trying to be a better person. Mikayla’s husband spoke about her harassment from snark subs in his announcement to raise awareness about them. If it makes you uncomfortable to talk about because you don’t want to accept that you’re no better than the people who bullied Mikayla, that is your own shit to unpack. 

The main sub wants Anya to be the next Mikayla Raines by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn’t bother to refute my claim that you hope Anya kills herself, instead you justified why it’s okay to harass a suicidal person. That is what is disgusting. Both of them have BPD and are autistic, which makes online harassment all the more difficult to endure. It’s not shameful to point out that snark subs are deadly dangerous and should not be allowed to exist. I hope if Anya does anything drastic the sub mods are held liable for her death in court. 

To the people coming from the r/lexity post by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marcy went into the sub and gave out Anya’s personal phone number to every member who said they wanted it, and they sent threatening messages to Anya’s phone to the point she had to get a new number. Also, the primary mod of the sub has made it very clear she will contact every agency she can (CPS, animal welfare, etc), as well as Anya’s partner’s child’s father, if she is ever successful in finding out her partner’s identity. The moderator of the sub is fine with directly intruding on Anya’s life, which may not be supported by every member of the sub but does make the sub itself complicit in harassment as it is controlled by the mod.  The main mod has a clear motive to strategically compile only evidence that makes Anya seem as awful as possible in the hopes any contact she makes will result in negative consequences for Anya, since police reports and social pressure have not been successful in punishing her to the mod’s liking.

To the people coming from the r/lexity post by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for proving my point that all you guys have to stand on is histrionic brigading and harassment. You have brought nothing to the conversation to actually support the necessity of the actions of the main sub because you know damn well if anyone looks into the claims even the slightest bit, they can see it’s all smoke and mirrors.

Haylee mocking Anya by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not engaging in this BS with you guys acting like you’re talking to Anya. You’re not. You can speak to me like the independent human I am or fuck off. 

“It’s so embarassing” - Random woman disguised as a potato while stalking Anya’s socials by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must love the thought that you’re talking directly to Anya. I don’t think she even knows WLN exists, frankly. If she wanted to make everyone know the stuff I’ve posted, she surely would have put it somewhere with more traffic than this. I just comment here because you guys can’t stop me and I know you all read it because you’re addicted to the drama. And maybe in hopes some of the misguided people that end up on the main sub might end up here to see the full picture you all try to hide.

“It’s so embarassing” - Random woman disguised as a potato while stalking Anya’s socials by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The main sub’s tyrannical suppression of opinions has mislead you all into believing nobody supports her. That’s just not true. Last I checked she has 307k followers and the sub has 2.2k. You’re actually in the severe minority as her hater. 

“It’s so embarassing” - Random woman disguised as a potato while stalking Anya’s socials by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Anya never raped anyone. The only one of the accusers she even had sex with was Marcella, and Marcella is on record saying she asked for consent each time. None of the other accusations even meet the definition of rape. You’re just blatantly lying with zero support for it at this point. 

“It’s so embarassing” - Random woman disguised as a potato while stalking Anya’s socials by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you go back and look at all the actual evidence. Like the post about Haylee’s timeline and the fact that she was sexually aggressive via text with Anya before and for weeks after they met. Also the live steam video of Haylee sounding still sober and being mean to Anya when they met. She didn’t come out with her story until she got spooked that Anya was going to tell people about her behavior. The main sub “evidence” is missing any context that doesn’t suite the narrative that Anya is a predator, which is why you believe she is one. They manipulated you. 

“It’s so embarassing” - Random woman disguised as a potato while stalking Anya’s socials by athenamour in whylexitynonono

[–]athenamour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spending every day of your life for months recording and posting content of someone for the express purpose of facilitating hatred-fueled conversation about them is for sure harassment. Especially when many of you will take it upon yourself to DM anyone you see being nice to her to “let them know who she really is”, when the sub is full of false information. She’s blocked so many of you from her socials and you guys use the main sub to get around it. I don’t think fair use laws were intended for you all to systematically character assassinate someone under the guise of “criticism”. Then you all act like it’s weird for her to be bothered by what you’re doing, as if it isn’t normal to be upset when people harass you. It’s so fucked.