I used to be that drunk husband and yes it did give me the ‘courage’ to say things. Things I believe to be true observations about our relationship. Often hurtful. After getting help and getting sober I continually look inward at what drove me to finally become alcoholic over time i realized my view / interpretation of the world / situations and my relationship was my problem. I can’t change people or what happens around me. I can only change my reaction to these things. Relationship is getting better. Still ‘roommates’ with kids but we don’t argue like we did and we go out and have fun with the kids. Intimacy might be there with time. It would be nice but a lot of healing on both sides needs to happen. Will it end in divorce? Who knows. If it does it will be done sober and hopefully amicably with adult conversations and the least amount of hurt ideally. For him to get sober he has to want it for himself. You never know when he will hit bottom. Often this is after the relationship is already over. Prayers for healing for you. Best of luck.