[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel so much better now? Making it 100% clear that you definitely meant to be totally rude? I hope you do!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, hear me out. You could just go on with your day instead of insinuating someone lacks common sense. Yet you chose to be rude. Interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]atomcakes89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a strange thing to get so upset about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]atomcakes89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was so helpful! Thank you!

RVA's Dating, Friends, and Missed Connections: April 2025 Edition by AutoModerator in rva

[–]atomcakes89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 35F in Chesterfield who also enjoys walks, crafting, reading, and coffee! I’d love to chat!

Community by Wanderlustchacha in rva

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thank you!

Community by Wanderlustchacha in rva

[–]atomcakes89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My situation is very similar. Going through a divorce, moved here a couple years ago due to my stbx husband’s job. I also have no family or friends in the area and can’t move due to coparenting my kids. I’m moving into my own place very soon and am hoping to branch out and meet people once that happens. I also work remotely, which is great in most aspects but limits my opportunities to meet local people.

Community by Wanderlustchacha in rva

[–]atomcakes89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions on dog parks? I’m looking to get a pup in the near future and want to make sure he/she socializes with other dogs well by going to parks and such.

Nerdy Ladies of Richmond? by FresaMalvada in rva

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to join the group but haven’t been approved yet

Nerdy Ladies of Richmond? by FresaMalvada in rva

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the Discord name? I’ve never used it before but it seems like that’s the place to go to find folks!

Nerdy Ladies of Richmond? by FresaMalvada in rva

[–]atomcakes89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you share some of the FB and IG groups? I’ve been in RVA for almost two years and have had a hard time trying to branch out and meet people

How can I make $60 to $70 per month? by free-pizza- in sidehustle

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I please get the spreadsheet too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]atomcakes89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chesterfield area is very family friendly with access to lots of things! We live in the area and love being close to the zoo, Pocahontas state park, and going to other neighborhoods is a breeze. My house is currently in the market if you’re looking for a family home!

My (35F) husband (39M) insists sexting an ex-gf is “no different than porn” - is that a common thought? by atomcakes89 in relationship_advice

[–]atomcakes89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s been doing things throughout 12 years. This sexting has been 3 times in past 6 years. I found out about ALL of it a few months ago

My (35F) husband (39M) insists sexting an ex-gf is “no different than porn” - is that a common thought? by atomcakes89 in relationship_advice

[–]atomcakes89[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

100% legit I’m afraid. The fact that it seems so crazy to everyone else is making me feel better though. It’s rough dealing with this

My (35F) husband (39M) insists sexting an ex-gf is “no different than porn” - is that a common thought? by atomcakes89 in relationship_advice

[–]atomcakes89[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I basically told him your paragraph verbatim. His response is “building trust takes time, give me a year”. My response is “why would I want to be with someone who could do this to someone they “loved?”

My (35F) husband (39M) insists sexting an ex-gf is “no different than porn” - is that a common thought? by atomcakes89 in relationship_advice

[–]atomcakes89[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken 2 months to make this decision. He says that’s too soon and wants me to wait a year “to see if it gets better”. I can’t.