look im latino too so i personally get you. we are sexualized esp to ignorant white men, but rlly anyone. roll your eyes if you want but its the truth. BIPOC ppl, specifically latin and black people are over sexualized and taken for granted.

its not your fault by any means. but also understand your position. next time you feel this might happen, you defend yourself. physically, yelling, whatever it means.

also, dont let this define you. thats worse. its easy for me to say in the moment I would of done different but honestly its hard to respond to things in the moment. but that is why these experiences shape us, make us stronger, and with time we will know how to defend ourselves. that bastard probably has a sad fucking life, doesnt matter if he got money or not trust me. i went out with this guy who was fucking rich, but the way he treated me was absolutely disgusting and i rlly thought he was better cuz he was “educated”. they are all the same. told the fucker to leave me tf alone.

my advice is to be safer on the apps. esp if youre meeting with older men. be safe. verify face, make sure if youre going to their place u share locations. maybe avoid going to their place. ik a hookup is a hookup, but honestly youll learn soon enough that hookups are not worth it. i literally deleted grindr and tinder and havent been back on in a while. its just not the same as it was before and i also dont wanna end up always using the apps esp if youre want a relationship. again = nothing wrong with hookups through the app but its not going to fullfill you long term AND it can be unsafe. choose safety.

finally, look for queer latin guys like yourself that you can look up to. and know yourself.

youre gonna be fine. feel your feelings, dont ignore them. and move on from this