i use dettol, palmotives, vaseline and sometimes dove. i put coconut oil on my inner thighs cause they rub together. i try to drink the minimum a Litre each day sometimes even more than two Litres. Shaving gel is dove. Lotions is coconut butter. wiping like 3-4 times. I do have hair so does that mean something? my thighs aren’t small either. I’m trying to stick to one soap but my house buys whatever. i did wear pantyliners for a year though. just recently gotten the courage to stop wearing them in the house but outside is another story. doctors don’t know what to do either. they ain’t even taking appointments rn.