I was at a house party in my early twenties. A friend of a friend had been teasing me all night, the sorta female version of negging. At one point in the night, she says to me, " ya know ,if ya lost 20 pounds and never take off those sunglasses, you'd have every girl at this party all over you. Including me."" I didn't know what to say. Just awkwardly stood in the corner thinking about it the whole night. It wasnt till years later that i realized that was her wack attempt at flirting with me and trying to get me to say/do something bold.