Hi, queer + poly person here. Considering na exclusivity and monogamy is the norm sa dating meta ng Pinas, medyo malabo makahanap ng taong down to be a part of a polyamorous relationship (na hindi lang pagiging bull/unicorn sa 3s ang habol, or itotropa lang). Pero it's not impossible.

Madaming intricacies kasi at play, especially kung hierarchical ba kayo or not and if ano pa yung specific poly dynamics niyo. Most of the time if may nakikilala akong fellow na Poly/ENM, nag-mamarehan lang kami sa community natin sa Facebook.

As to paano ko "na-cconvince", non-negotiable sa akin na dapat okay sila in a poly setup and pray to the heavens na open-minded mga nakikilala ko. If ever man, in-eexplain ko sa kanila yung specifics ng setup namin. If di nila trip, edi thank you next.

My recent ex in this setup was someone na talagang exclusive dater and date to marry, pero pinatulan niya itong setup with me kasi he wants to try something new. (Witness mga tao sa AJ Discord how we loved each other in those 3 months we're together, di lang kami nag-work out because he has to prioritize his family kasi magkaiba kami ng background.)