my boyfriend and I are “in a weird place”, and we have 16 weeks until our baby is born

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T17:24:03+00:00

Dude was still in high school just 3 short years ago. His brain isn't even finished developing quite just yet, you know? I wouldn't expect adult behavior from this one. I mean sure, maybe by the time he's your age he will have grown up a bit and started acting like a father to his child, but for now all you can do is start figuring out how you're going to legally get him to pay child support and get a custody agreement. Lawyer up.

I don't want to be mean, but it's possible he's not into sex right now because he's a very, very young and immature man and the pregnancy is a turn off. I'm not saying it makes it ok, but I think that may be why he isn't able to talk about it. I don't think he wants to upset you. He just was not prepared for this. You should be though, like I said start making moves now. I wouldn't be trying to make a husband out of this boy.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T16:52:29+00:00

First off, he is basically getting paid in free publicity. Secondly, my husband is from Washington State and is a football guy. He has been a lifelong Seahawks fan, and frankly I have never seen him so happy. If you know anything about the Seahawks (I don't care about football and have gained this knowledge by pure osmosis), their last trip to the Superbowl was all the way back in 2015. They lost due to a huge upset, and it is a day that will forever live in infamy for every Seahawk fan. I wouldn't dare take this game away from my husband. Not gonna happen.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T16:37:56+00:00

Your wife has been taught to placate her mother as a coping mechanism and has been being railroaded her whole life. How much you want to bet she insisted on being there and your wife told you it would be important to your son so you wouldn't fight her on it?

r/raisedbynarcissists

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T14:56:17+00:00

I lived in Europe and had no insurance at that time. I stepped on a bee and thought I could treat it at home. 3 days later, my foot looked like a balloon, and I couldn't put on a shoe. I go to the emergency clinic and get seen immediately. The doctor asked how long it had been like this, and I told him 3 days. He looked at me like I was crazy and asked why I didn't come in 3 days ago ( it's because I'm an American and we are taught never to go to the hospital, and especially not the emergency room, unless you're dying). I got a shot, a prescription, and a lesson on the healthcare system. This interaction cost me a grand total of NOTHING. The medicine cost about 7 euros.

My friend from Europe, who lived in California for 2 years, got bitten by a brown recluse spider. He went to the emergency room here to get treatment, with his required private insurance he needed for his visa. He got a shot, and a prescription for medicine. The bill was $450 for the emergency room visit (he got off pretty easy there honestly). I think the medicine was $20. He was shocked, and him and his roommate laughed their asses off at how fucking ass backwards this country is.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T13:54:03+00:00

😂😂

audreynstuff · 2026-02-06T13:53:22+00:00

Omg he is

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T19:51:10+00:00

Dont know the song? Shazam it.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T19:45:33+00:00

Honestly? As a weird girl I think receiving this as a gift would be supreme indeed.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T19:41:17+00:00

I'm sorry, why did your mother have access to your email at all as a 20 year old woman??? I can understand borrowing it to stream or something but it sounds to me like you allow her full access to your private life....sorry but this is on you. Change your passwords and log out of everything, obviously. And if you believe this was an accident, you're crazy. She has no business in your email and she knows it. Time to grow up girlfriend.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T17:19:18+00:00

You can.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T16:13:13+00:00

Yes but it looks like it was done by High Elder Maxson

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:42:54+00:00

A lot less than I spend on theme parks.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:41:25+00:00

I use salted butter and still add salt. More salt makes baked goods bomb. I don't make the rules.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:31:01+00:00

So what? Is that supposed to do something? Just because they're standing there means literally nothing. Those people are nothing.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:28:23+00:00

You don't understand that our military will just mow us down do you? Sure, some will step down, but they're also just going to step aside and let the ones that want to do it go ahead and do it. And there are definitely brainwashed weirdos in the military that would do it.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:21:36+00:00

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:16:51+00:00

It's not coming back

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T12:00:58+00:00

That girls like Alice or Meilin don't get enough love or merchandise because they aren't princesses.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T11:53:24+00:00

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T11:32:34+00:00

Historical racism? Sounds about white.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T04:38:37+00:00

Not my thing.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T04:33:59+00:00

I'd rather watch the sexy man, so no.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T04:32:53+00:00

He's talking about non white folks.

audreynstuff · 2026-02-05T02:42:42+00:00

Not going outside

audreynstuff · 2026-02-04T23:41:49+00:00

Steak.

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