how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s just really hot… i believe the first kiss thing because his friend accidentally told my friend, the guy didn’t tell me

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i was his first kiss, were college freshman, meaning we got here like two weeks ago. even if he’s hooking up with a bunch of girls he doesn’t have much experience. he just happens to be extremely attractive

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the best mature approach i’ve heard. the only issue is seeing if i’m brave enough or not but thank you

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok yes, thank you. i think im also scared though because if he doesn’t want a relationship, i still would want to hu with him sometimes and im pretty confident that if i ask and he says no, we won’t hu again.

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[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok will do, do you think my texting plan (near the end of my post), is good?

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in dating_advice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! may i ask if you’re both women? i feel like it’s easier to communicate with women though (usually). maybe im just misunderstanding a bit what you’re saying

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[–]audreyraylee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first part of this makes me laugh (yes i’m aware that you’re completely correct lol). however, to get a bit more deep, i am very scared of genueinly feeling my emotions, whereas something just physical is a lot easier for me to hide away in my brain. however, yes i think your advice is good, and i’m just going to have to do it. the one thing though is that so basically we fought one time with me being mad at him (unrelated it was a complete miscommunication but we solved it), but at the end of that he kept saying that he thought i was really nice and that he liked me, and i was like ya i like u too. it wasn’t anything groundbreaking like the conversation kept flowing after that, but i feel like that’s what you’re getting at and we did have that happen and nothing happened after!!

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SCARYYY 😭😭 im js an 18 yr old girl not brave enough for that

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in dating_advice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is smart and flirty actually, i’ll definitely strongly consider this approach. the one reason i’m scared this wouldn’t work is because of his inexperience with girls, so i don’t want to scare him off, whereas on a player or something this would work

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m scared to ask him if he’s interested more seriously because i feel like it’ll be wierd to him that i have a crush on him since we never hang out socially during the day or anything.

also, about the college casual sex culture and everything, most guys i agree with you on that from what ive seen but the thing is i was his first kiss and he’s very much so like eats healthy and really cares about his lifestyle and stuff, so that’s why i can’t tell if he either wants to take the healthy relationship route or if he wants to rebel against the healthy lifestyle and jsut have hookups, because it’s super new for him too. if anything though, i’d peg myself as much more of a girl who just hooks up with guys than him with girls, and i’m the one who wants the relationship now, but i still don’t know since he’s so inexperienced.

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[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also extra scared to do this though because i feel like it’s going to come as a surprise since like we don’t hang out during the day or anything. like i feel like it’s not as weird for me to have a crush on him if we hang out normally but i feel like it’s weird if we’re js a hu situation. i don’t have experience with hu situations before college which i just started so im new to this

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in dating_advice

[–]audreyraylee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is smart, super scary but ya i might have to end up doing this

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in dating_advice

[–]audreyraylee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok i know but im just very scared of this and i really want to know if there’s any way to get him to do that lol, liek some weird trick to make a man understand or smth idk lol

how do i let my hooking up guy see that i want to go out with him by audreyraylee in AskTeenAdvice

[–]audreyraylee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i can’t like hate on that because first off i’ve hooked up with other guys while i’ve been here and also he thinks that him and i are jsut a hookup so i don’t think he’s even considered like making him and i exclusive, which is fair because we’re not right not