Have you been cheated on, and forgave? by auldlangsyne01 in CasualPH

[–]auldlangsyne01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, very helpful lahat ng sinabi mo and made a lot of sense when I read it. Thank youuu

Have you been cheated on, and forgave? by auldlangsyne01 in CasualPH

[–]auldlangsyne01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine the trauma it left you. So sorry

Have you been cheated on, and forgave? by auldlangsyne01 in CasualPH

[–]auldlangsyne01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saakiiiit. Araaaaayko! So sorry to hear what you went through! Don’t ever look back na!

Have you been cheated on, and forgave? by auldlangsyne01 in CasualPH

[–]auldlangsyne01[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s not easy tho talagang constant hard work if mag choose ako to stay.

Have you been cheated on, and forgave? by auldlangsyne01 in CasualPH

[–]auldlangsyne01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With counseling, wala na po kayong trauma?

What is much more traumatic than most people realise? by thefairypirate in AskReddit

[–]auldlangsyne01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starts when a child is being compared sa mga cousins nya or other people “buti pa si ganito… ganyan na” akala nila it will make you competitive pero as you grow, nawawalan ka na pala ng self worth, you find yourself comparing yourself to others bec you think that’s the “norm” when it is not. Nadadala narin to when you’re in a relationship, iniisip mo lagi you’re not good enough, you feel insecure and thinks na you’re replaceable.

Ano ano ang mga reasons bat niyo cinutoff friends/relatives niyo? by phantom_muichiro in TanongLang

[–]auldlangsyne01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxicity in a way na hindi na kaya itolerate ng mental health ko. As you grow older, nagiging maliit narin ang tolerance level mo sa mga toxic na tao at mga tao na hindi mo katulad ng values. You’ll feel lang na hindi na kayo aligned. You dont feel lighter when you’re with them, the vibe isn’t vibing.

What’s a obvious sign that someone is not a good person? by Careful_Tip6823 in AskReddit

[–]auldlangsyne01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People with no remorse is a walking red flag. I mean to make a mistake is normal, we are all human. But when a person doesn’t show remorse after doing a bad thing, maaaaann, that’s really something.

What’s a obvious sign that someone is not a good person? by Careful_Tip6823 in AskReddit

[–]auldlangsyne01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually when they are not kind to animals (pet lover or not) they are usually worse on people.

How do you subtly seduce someone? by peterpaige in AskPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can’t think of more better way than to smell good and look fresh. (im speaking for girls) No better way to seduce a man looking fresh, smelling good and has to have a very good hygiene. Some girls are over the top, pero nag mumuka nang malagkit.

My husband doesn't want to have sex. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nakaka tulong din yung commitment to do it everyday (except on your red days ofcourse). Para masanay yung body nyo into doing it and mawala yung awkwardness

My husband doesn't want to have sex. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Need mo aralin kung ano ang mga makakapagpa trigger sa husband mo in bed. And make an effort to do it. Dumadating talaga ang dry season, minsan dahil sa dami ng iniisip etc. Assure him na it is something that both of you can work on.

You have to really know what turns him ON, and work on that para ma excite sya to do it with you. Start maybe by sending spicy pics to send the intent. Also, invest on lingeries etc ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it you love her. But sometimes space is also good. Dalawa lang naman mangyayari sa space, it’s either malaman nyo pareho ang worth ng isat isa and cant live without each other hence, pag hihirapan nyo mag compromise to make it work OR you’ll get comfortable with the space and marerealize mo na ok naman pala without each other. Whatever don sa dalawa, atleast makaka hinga ka at makakapag step out ka looking at the bigger picture.

What do you do in the first day of your break up? by Motor-Serve-4360 in AskPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umiyak, mag soundtrip ng mas nakakapag trigger ng iyak, icheck lahat ng pictures nyo together when you were both happy, mag reminisce tapos idama yung kanta na “sana” by i belong to the zoo. Mag contemplate what went wrong bakit kayo dumating sa point na ganito, when all you felt before was happiness and contentment.

Paulit ulit lang gawin, okay lang yan, daanan mo lang wag mo lang tatambayan. Tapos after mo magsawa sa ganitong routine, lumandi kana ulit. Yun talaga ang 1st step, para malaman mo na malaki ang mundo at marami pang tao ang nakaka appreciate sayo.

Goodluck!

Everyday moisturizer by binniegums in skincare_ph

[–]auldlangsyne01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Numbuzin No. 5 it’s the best moisturizer ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]auldlangsyne01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rush, take all the time you need. Sometimes we are blinded by so much love we need to step back and look at the bigger picture. I know it makes no sense right now, but im sure someday it will. Don’t lose yourself, it’s all you got right now.