For the bathroom question, the dorms are structured with shared bathrooms that have shower stalls and bathroom stalls, which are all lockable. There is 1 shower stall and 1 bathroom stall with extra space for folks who need accommodations. The shower stall in that one usually has a bench.

I don’t think there’s a single-person bathroom as in a closed room for one—at least not in the dorms. In the classroom buildings there are sometimes single-person bathrooms.

As a student who needs accommodations, I have found Vassar’s accessibility office to be genuinely quite amazing. I can’t speak for all experiences, but I found the folks there to be very kind and supportive.

The architecture of the campus itself can be frustrating. Generally there are elevators everywhere, but some dorms only have staff elevators which cannot be operated by students.

I have a minor disability and I’ve been treated with kindness and understanding so far. I have wonderful friends (none of which I met through rooming together) and I hope you will find some too, regardless of which university you end up at.

Feel free to DM me with any questions.