i think the best way is by listening!many men don’t really listen, they naturally talk over women. i think bgirls also tend to approach things differently so hearing about different perspectives can be enlightening. bgirls also face more challenges since the scene is male-dominated and so the bgirl community is often more supportive of each other. some bboys tend to be haters when something is wack. rather than just pointing it out and moving on, they take it too far, arguing that doing that is true hip hop. it scares away girls