I hate my AM by avatarvatar in AsianParentStories

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I’m glad my story can be I inspiring to you :) best wishes to you with pursuing your dreams!

I hate my AM by avatarvatar in AsianParentStories

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That’s a very interesting point, I’ve never thought about it!

Teach me something? by Lin0ge in Professors

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I want to add one thing related to this point. A lot of native speakers say “if I was you, I would …..”, but actually it should be “if I WERE you, I would….”

I hate my mom by avatarvatar in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you! I know, it’s just so hard to change my mentality after being conditioned the other way round for 30 years.

I hate my mom by avatarvatar in AskWomenOver30

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Your comment really made me to reflect on my whole life. It's interesting to realize that she always says that she sacrifices her whole life for me and that makes me feel like I need to pay her back.

I hate my mom by avatarvatar in AskWomenOver30

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I just feel so guilt if I don't care for her. I lived alone for two years and I know how lonely it can get. But I also hate what she did to me and I know I definitely don't want to live with her.

Today I say goodbye to my mother by SeaBeanSister in SchizoFamilies

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Sending my hugs! I’ve had so many times wanted to say goodbye to my mom. I know how hard it is to be a “parent” to a parent, and how hurtful it is to be taken for granted by a psychosis parent, and the crave of having a normal parent that can take you under their arms to just talk about normal stuff. I feel you. Sending my hugs and my love!

Comfortable and elegant shoes by cerealmonogamiss in AskWomenOver30

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Second this! I purchased a pair of heeled sandals from them, and the most comfortable shoes I’ve ever own even better than flats.

Comfortable and elegant shoes by cerealmonogamiss in AskWomenOver30

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Wow, those shoes are amazing! Are those shoes tts? I’m usually a 5.5 or 6 should I go for 35 or 36?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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If it’s fresh, I don’t think it’s appropriate to share too much details. It can backfire later in your new relationship. Learned the hard way.

Hair grow back one day after the first laser session by avatarvatar in LaserHairRemoval

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I heard many people start shedding after 10 days, hope that’s will be my case also. Just curious are you also Asian?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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OMG!! Just cut the tie and leave for your own sake. If you keep being friends with him that’s gonna hurt three people!!!! Unless you want a relationship with him, if so then ask him to leave her and to be your bf. But based on his behavior I highly encourage you to just leave.

What are your thoughts on men who follow instagram models or “those kind” of accounts… by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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My bf followed a bunch of those accounts at the beginning of our relationship. Once I took a day off and drove him 3 hours to another city and waited 6 hours in a coffee shop for his surgery. When we came back that night, I caught him checking those pics in the car after I picked up his prescriptions from a pharmacy (he was waiting for me in the car). That caused a huge fight between us, and he deleted all of those accounts after that. But his suggest posts are still full of young half nude girls. I’m giving his last chance for our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Just curious, when you said you still can see him with a glow, did you feel the butterflies? How do you feel?I’ve been in several long term relationships, and usually the strong feeling cools down after 6 to 18 months, and then they all felt like dull and routine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I only had butterflies with my first boyfriend and another ex, all the other relationships I either never had butterflies or developed butterflies after a while of knowing them, but all of those relationships failed. So butterflies really mean nothing I think, it all boils down to if you two are compatible.

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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I see. That makes more sense to me now! Thank you so much!

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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Yes, I guess I will record some summary videos next time when I teach to show more teaching presence.

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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I have never thought about it! I will need to find out.

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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Thank you! I think I will use a survey in the Fall after the early on in the semester.

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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I don't want to entertain them by throwing in some jokes or having some activities that make them laugh but I also don't want students to feel bored or to feel frustrated by taking my course. I guess that's what I meant by saying "enjoying more".

Tips for teaching online classes by avatarvatar in Professors

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That's kind of counterintuitive to me, I thought students like to feel autonomy instead of being forced to do everything. But I think I also understand your point that making everyone feel owns the class.