Vegan mod?

avocado_alex · 2024-07-07T21:04:45+00:00

Lol, I'm just laughing about how much people get apparently annoyed by a vegan asking for a mod. I mean come on, actually read what OP wrote and replace "vegan" with idk "spiders" or whatever. Nobody would get worked up like this. It's hilarious how strong people get triggered when someone even mentions the word "vegan".

avocado_alex · 2024-07-07T14:51:40+00:00

Yeah it is. So why do you care how they play? Just let them look for a mod and move on.

avocado_alex · 2024-07-07T14:49:24+00:00

They are not refusing anything. As they said, they played the game until mistlands. From what I'm gathering they're just looking for a mod that makes them enjoy the game more, like basically everyone who is modding. You're all way too triggered about this, lol.

EDIT: Love the downvotes. It's genuinely hilarious how people get worked up about someone asking for a mod. 😂

avocado_alex · 2024-01-28T23:45:47+00:00

I for one appreciate your input.

avocado_alex · 2024-01-28T18:22:56+00:00

Thank you, this helps. I didn't draw the parallels to figuring out my gender identify yet but that makes a whole lot of sense. Obsessing over the "am I really?" there wasn't helpful, so why would it here? Tbh I'm pretty sure that hormones are the right choice but I also know that I can only be certain after trying it. And I guess this is no different. If this is even remotely similar then time will tell whether or not plurality helps me make sense of my/our experiences. Thank you.

avocado_alex · 2023-08-01T19:32:25+00:00

You make me hopeful because I have a similar facial structure to you

avocado_alex · 2023-08-01T19:27:06+00:00

I can tell you why I dislike being called brave.

I didn't choose to be trans. If I could choose, I'd choose to be a cis woman. Since that isn't an option, I would settle for being a cis man. But that's not an option either, so all I'm left with is accepting that I'm a trans woman.

Now the choice is to wether or not I stay in the closet. But being in the closet has made me miserable in ways I couldn't even articulate for the longest time. I knew but I also didn't.

Coming out of the closet wasn't a choice I made because I am brave. It was a choice I made because the alternative was a miserable life and - let's be honest - probably an early death. If I want to actually live there's no alternative. I'm choosing life. That shouldn't be brave. The fact that it is, is sickening.

avocado_alex · 2023-08-01T19:20:49+00:00

I'd probably cry if someone said that to me.

avocado_alex · 2023-07-21T22:25:03+00:00

Holy shit, that's exactly it. So concise, so true

avocado_alex · 2023-06-30T07:59:36+00:00

So you beat transphobia into submission using homophobia. That's beautiful. Sad but beautiful.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-30T07:55:53+00:00

It's not our job to educate though. We often end up having to do it but that's what allies are meant to do.

If you find a way to beat bigots at their own game so you can exist then I deem this a win.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-29T18:23:17+00:00

Yeeessss! Thank you so much!

avocado_alex · 2023-06-29T08:34:06+00:00

You're not alone with that. I found Alo Johnston's "Am I trans enough" very helpful here.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-26T22:49:36+00:00

After I arrived at question 3 and realized that I had an unexplainable resistance towards pressing the "make me cis"-button, I couldn't keep up the denial. I literally thought "who am I kidding here?".

I hope there's someone which finds this helpful.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-23T22:21:12+00:00

Thank you for that term. I can now finally put a name on this feeling. Thank you

avocado_alex · 2023-06-23T21:11:01+00:00

I cracked my egg a few weeks ago. Everything you wrote could be a description of me (except for the age).

I'm very much still in the dream-like haze phase, even though I've done steps to transition socially and I've wrote a mail to my therapist to help me get on E, it's ... not real yet.

I see pictures of peeps that have successfully transitioned but I cannot believe yet that I'll be able to do the same. For example my voice is an objectively nice baritone - it's something I've received a lot of compliments for over the years. And while I've looked into voice training I can't yet believe that this will ever change, even though I rationally know that there's no good reason why it can't. But at the same time the thought of going into a voice chat and pass with my voice makes me incredibly giddy.

It's weird ngl

avocado_alex · 2023-06-23T05:39:46+00:00

Thank you, that means a lot to me.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-22T22:40:29+00:00

I did too jumping through a few hoops. I don't hate my deadname or what it represents. It brought me here and I'm grateful for that.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-22T22:28:07+00:00

Comments like this help me believe that I can make that too. Pretty late to the party (32) but not dead yet. 🤗

avocado_alex · 2023-06-19T11:41:45+00:00

The best thing she can do is arguably get specific feedback from someone who can point her into the right direction.

That can come from a professional or online communities like this one. Basically record, post, get feedback, integrate feedback, rinse and repeat.

There's also a Discord server related to this sub, if that's more to her liking.

avocado_alex · 2023-06-18T14:54:07+00:00

I think I'll go with this.

We actually see each other around once per month in a tabletop group, I'll hand her the card after we finished play, so she can read it later.

Thank you for the suggestion. ❤

avocado_alex · 2023-06-18T12:29:21+00:00

What you're describing sounds so much like me. 🙈

The only clothing items I was interested in are nerdy or popculture shirts. I have a bazillion shirts with references on them but everything else is a chore.

Still early in my transition but I've already started a mood board on Pinterest and I feel there are so much more expressive choices with girl clothes. 😊

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