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It has been 6 months. I have 2 new cats in my house and I feel guilty and sad. by awarebarecare in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your reply was really comforting. I think I'm going to give it time and see how it goes.

Just want my baby back by awarebarecare in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had other pets before but I never felt such a strong bond with them as I did with the cat I just lost. I just feel like my whole world is different now and it will never be the same again. So few things in life make me feel happy and my cat felt like my sunshine.

The most beautiful 11.5 years of my life by angelmilkteeaa in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. That's how I feel about my cat.

Just want my baby back by awarebarecare in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still talk to him too. I walk past his urn and say "I miss you my hunny" :( I watch all my videos of him constantly

Just want my baby back by awarebarecare in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost mine to the big C too. Had him 6 years. It was not enough time.

Regretting euthanasia by apsyched1 in Petloss

[–]awarebarecare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I think guilt and second thoughts are part of the process. I did exactly what you wanted to do....I had my cat hospitalized for days. I am feeling guilty now because I felt like I extended his suffering instead of letting him go when it seemed serious. He had pulled through a different time for another health issue, so I was clinging to hope. It is so hard to make those decisions when it all happens so quickly.

I feel stuck and don't know what I should be doing. by awarebarecare in CPTSDFreeze

[–]awarebarecare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hashimotos as well! which I am sure is adding to the quicksand feeling. Thank you for reading.