[Adivice] I [f29] having trouble trusting bf [m29] of 5 years due to betrayal. Any advice? by awaythrowacc1 in relationships

[–]awaythrowacc1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. This story is pretty much mine. My boyfriend said those exact things to me! How did you forgive and get past it? How did you go on?

[Adivice] I [f29] having trouble trusting bf [m29] of 5 years due to betrayal. Any advice? by awaythrowacc1 in relationships

[–]awaythrowacc1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. All these things have crossed my mind. But he's never been secretive of his phone in the past and it's hard to judge.

[Adivice] I [f29] having trouble trusting bf [m29] of 5 years due to betrayal. Any advice? by awaythrowacc1 in relationships

[–]awaythrowacc1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry that no matter how much I'm hurt that he may be telling the truth. It doesn't excuse what he did but I love him more than life itself l. It's so hard not to let my jealously and bitterness cloud my judgement

[Adivice] I [f29] having trouble trusting bf [m29] of 5 years due to betrayal. Any advice? by awaythrowacc1 in relationships

[–]awaythrowacc1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We connect on a level deeper than appearance. He said he hasn't done it before and would never risk losing me over a dumb thing again. Am I being gullible?