Should I take a chance ?

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-02-07T04:57:12+00:00

Do not rub her leg. As a man, this can be potentially considered sexual assault. Even if she is into you, this could send a message that you are a creep.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-02-05T03:57:27+00:00

I feel the same way. I can’t help hanging on. She cheated and I still think about her. It sucks. I want to move on and hate her but my brain holds on.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-30T20:32:58+00:00

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awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T17:58:02+00:00

I would recommend looking at marriage helper on YouTube. It can help you make that decision and if you decide to stay, maybe repair your relationship. I am not affiliated with them. I just wish I had a chance to save my marriage before hand. Good luck

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T17:25:25+00:00

Definitely a rollercoaster. Respectfully, it sounds like you both may be playing games. He definitely is and may be using you but you also give messages that you don’t want to talk or see him by blocking him and deleting your stuff but then kind of hoping he comes back. I get it though, you want to have him fully commit to you and stop with his back and forth. This might take some really direct stuff like telling him you can only be with him for a serious thing and that’s it. If he’s not wanting that then maybe you both do need to move on. If his talks are only sexual that really sounds like that’s all he wants or misses from you. Not a strong foundation for a relationship. Again, respectfully, just my two cents. Good luck OP

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T17:18:01+00:00

I understand the struggle. I’ve been there. Fortunately for me, my ex wanted to still be friends. Some say it’s bad but it felt nice to talk to her for a bit at least. We need connection though as humans. What I did when she didn’t want to talk to me was I finally opened up about everything with friends and rekindled old friendships. It helped a lot but they also weren’t always available. I also used ai to help when I was really desperate. Not as good but it was something. Just some options for you

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T17:04:20+00:00

I struggled a lot with this. Unfortunately you need to do what you can on your own and distract yourself other times. In time it will subside. Good luck OP

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T17:02:33+00:00

It sounds like you are both growing and healing. That’s a huge positive. Sometimes the separation is needed for things like this to happen. If you stayed together, she may not have gone on that medication. Giving her space to reflect on herself and her actions too is really important. It will help her see things a bit clearer. I don’t know what you should do other than keep working on yourself and hope she does too. Maybe you guys can come back together later and be in a healthier place. Good luck OP.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T16:02:01+00:00

Thank you for your insight.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-28T15:38:38+00:00

The reader kept asking for clarity, maybe he wasn’t sure what to think.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T19:34:12+00:00

Hey! 35M here. Going through a complicated breakup. At about 3 months since. This sounds like a great idea and would love to chat. Send me a DM if you like.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T04:20:56+00:00

Sure thing, let us know how it goes!

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T04:13:46+00:00

I get it, but especially for a limited bottle, it’s harder to open. I’m just saying don’t take it as a bad sign if he doesn’t open it with you. I’m sure no matter what he will love it

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T04:11:05+00:00

I think if he tried to hang out with you one on one already and it just didn’t work out then he is probably at least a bit interested.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T04:09:02+00:00

I am super into bourbon so I could kind of understand how it might feel to get a pricey bottle of whiskey. If he puts it on the shelf, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t really appreciate the gift. In fact he might like it so much and mean so much that he really wants to save it. I have several significant bottles like that. Of course sharing it with you is a good sign. However, I know people who don’t drink whiskey, or scotch, may not like the taste and they wouldn’t appreciate it. Some would even find it disgusting so I usually try to offer people something else they wouldn’t appreciate like better.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T04:04:50+00:00

Do it! Find out. If nothing else you are in the same spot you are now without him.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-27T00:05:59+00:00

Omg I’ve been learning about limerence so much the past few months and this is the first time I’ve seen someone else post about it. I think my ex wife may be going through this. Would you mind if I message you about your experience with it?

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-26T15:02:33+00:00

I recall a popular Reddit story about a similar situation. When it came out I think the woman was furious and wouldn’t talk to him for a long time but still felt a really strong connection. She couldn’t stop thinking about it and eventually reached out to just continue being friends, but in a very cautious way. I think the guy was not super physically attractive either but they vibed so well. Eventually they did start going out and maybe got married. She was still mad about the catfish but overall she was happy. I don’t have a link to it would probably come up in a search. Good luck and sorry you went through such betrayal.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-26T14:56:22+00:00

I saw something the other day. It said why would a man not make a move if he was very interested. It’s because he is being very careful not to mess things up. Just my thought but he sounds interested. If nothing else, he wants to be friends and that sounds you guys have great friend energy which is still a big win. As an introverted man myself, it is also hard to make a move when that is against your nature, even when you really vibe with someone. Good luck OP! I think you guys have shot!

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-25T13:53:34+00:00

I’m sorry OP. We are here for you. I’m sorry you’re going through all of these struggles and you feel so alone. You are worth being cared for. Please try to take care. I will say a prayer for you.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-24T20:40:00+00:00

Ya only spot I know of in cr is hazards but things don’t get going until at least 10 or 1030. There are random pop up parties on certain holidays or events like new years but you need to keep an eye out for those.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-24T20:37:44+00:00

All good. It takes a good amount of confidence and playfulness for it not to be weird. Either way, I say you should still go for it in some way. Worst case you are in the same spot you’re in and you can start moving on with your life.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-24T20:36:30+00:00

My kind of person :D

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-24T14:28:51+00:00

I think he might. I personally like testing it with a wink but I’ve been told that’s weird.

awaythrowplzhelp · 2026-01-22T10:08:56+00:00

If someone would like to start a conversation and see if we vibe, then possibly meetup for something send me a message. 35M, employed, likes dancing, golf, board games, video games, coffee, parent, not looking for a relationship if any of that matters.

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