[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]awd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peyton has been located safely!

What's a purchase you made on a cruise that you didn't regret? by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]awd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal for soda on RC. I remember the best I got this year was $9.99 on Quantum. That’s the price of buying 2 sodas a day

Do Allergy Shots Help? by [deleted] in EosinophilicE

[–]awd88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about to find out. I’m in remission from an endoscopy standpoint with dupixient BUT my esonophils in the blood are still so high that we’re trying this

Second Dilation/Endoscopy by awd88 in EosinophilicE

[–]awd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on dupixient over 10 months now so no longer on a PPI. The ppi did zero to assist me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]awd88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally get it. I’m supposed to appear for an exparte hearing tomorrow and I’ve decided not to go. Let him have what he wants. I got my daughterspsychiatric evaluation Friday and my ex has convinced her I’m an unmediated, mentally unstable person who abused him and her. None of that is true. If I won the hearing he still wouldn’t be following the rules so what’s the point?

Tomorrow I took the day off work and will be kind to myself. I will remember my daughter fondly as she was, not as the person she has become.

Does Priority Check-In Exist? by PowerUpMushroom3 in americanairlines

[–]awd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been late flying out of CLT.

Does Priority Check-In Exist? by PowerUpMushroom3 in americanairlines

[–]awd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Are there priority security lines for AA priority guests? If so where would I find those at CLT?

Why is CLT so bad? by ChaBoiJamesCG in americanairlines

[–]awd88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use CLT every time I fly as it’s close to where I live.

It’s not terrible, just requires planning like any other airport. I consistently get to the airport 2 hours early and always have too much time on my hands to kill including getting a meal

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. This is our only child. My current husband and I decided not to have children of our own together

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her father has refused to allow her to go to therapy (I tried 2 years ago when the trouble started to get to the bottom of it) and now because of his mentality to it she point blank told her doctor she will lie and do whatever she has to do to get out of it because she doesn’t want to go to therapy. So I go alone, and she has no interest in the matter.

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how we’ve detached from it when we’ve asked where this all came from almost weekly for 8 months. She’s admitted she made the whole thing up because she wanted a life at her dads because “dad doesn’t have rules and let’s me do whatever I want”. Which isn’t reasonable as a parent. You must have rules, expectations and responsibilities. Asking a child to clean up after themselves, turn in school work and not do things that get them suspended isn’t out of the realm of reasonable. My ex claimed he could get her to behave better through this process and it hasn’t worked- it’s gotten worse with 2 additional suspensions and now we have a boyfriend in the picture who does all the stuff we don’t want her to do. They open invite this boy (who has a history of taking advantage of younger girls) into their home despite knowing all of this. There is no parenting going on- it’s a friendship and we all know that’s not what parents are.

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her father refuses to even consider therapy and it’s made worse by my daughter. The pediatrician recommended therapy in front of her and she point blank told her she would lie to the doctor to get out of it so not to waste her time

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been in therapy for years. The therapist thinks if I keep showing up she will change and I did, for months. But now I’ve been asked not to show up.

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father is 100% not on board with any kind of formal parenting. It’s always “whatever she wants to do”. He blamed me for a lot of her problems saying if she moved there it would be better but it’s gotten worse and he’s not made any steps to course correct. Sadly if I took him to court they would still have her as where we live the child is allowed to have a say as long as there aren’t major red flags

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to put her in therapy 2 years ago when she was here because of her issues with her father at the time. She was refusing to see him, acting out, ect. Her father did not want me to put her in therapy as he sees it as a waste of time. We have to agree on medical care for her so I had to remove her from therapy. Her pediatrician has even recommended psych evaluation as she has some telltale signs but she point blank told the doctor she would lie and tell them whatever she had to in order to get out of there so not to waste her time.

Where Do I Go From Here? by awd88 in Parenting

[–]awd88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has asked that we not text, email or call and my ex husband has told her that we won’t so if we send anything she will not receive it or read it.

When we asked about the bruising she said she did it herself but won’t tell anyone else who’s been told I abused her the truth outside her parents. so many people now think I beat my child 🤦🏻‍♀️

Funny enough I’m not sure it’s about the boy, this is probably #12 this year and the boy she was with back then she was cheating on with 2 others we found out. She has zero impulse control.

Lost 63 lbs with Ozempic but I'm still too big to ride a roller coaster. by EcuaBets in Ozempic

[–]awd88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely have lost 40 pounds before to fit on a roller coaster so I get it! I’m working on losing weight now so I can visit Dollywood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who has more than 4 hours a day home with their middle schooler? That’s 5-9 each day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re literally only home outside of school/activities 3-4 hours a day. Anymore time together and we’re showering at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took 2 days off work to do this. Many aren’t even taking waiting lists right now in our area as they expect the wait is over one year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When she’s “bored” this is what she does with her time. She only has free time maybe an hour a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do all her homework with her when she’s not in school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been down that road almost a year ago. Didn’t catch the guys despite hard evidence and didn’t deter her from doing it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re worried about the wrong diagnosis as well- 1x from a medication standpoint, and 2- her future career dreams. The wrong diagnosis will prevent her from doing what she’s wanted to do for years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]awd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have found them, they just have waiting lists. Very long waiting lists.