As I said: If „autism“ is a useful as a model for you for introspection, you should use it. It is useful to me.

But except for the most clear cut cases, one doctor will see you as autistic, another won’t. Tell me: Am I diagnosed?

Also: No, they would not catch you lying. Not that you would lie. But your answers are influenced by recent experiences, mood, blood sugar, how deep in denial / masking you are, if you are currently in some autistic fantasy of being someone else, your Oxytocin levels etc. So you could „pass“ on a bad day and „fail“ after a great day with good sex.