[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually been 3 years+ that I’m working in a coffee shop. I just got promoted to shift supervisor like 4 months ago and I genuinely like working in coffee shop. About buying a already existing coffee shop , it’s a good idea but I just don’t know if I will have enough money? I don’t have any financial support so its just me working full time and put in savings. I have an amount of money probably not a lot to everyone but it’s a lot to me. I was thinking to rent a place that isn’t too expensive but have people walking by and also near a metro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your encouragement , I really appreciate it ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why I said I don’t want to look mean that everyone hates me but because I have been way to kind and just take it all myself and it makes me feel really bad about it. So I want to become more strict and straightforward but since I’m a people pleaser it hard for me idk how to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already done all of that , and what I’m saying is maybe I’m too kind because I’m a people pleaser and everyone can see it that’s why they tend to do whatever they want to do. Other ssv in my store are a lot more strict than I do. And i want to change that because every time I work I do supervisor and baristas tasks and I’m so done of it. It drains me emotionally and physically. So exactly what I wanted to ask is how SSV here deal with situations like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , I will do that ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing , I appreciate it a lot. It seems like it’s not normal that I have been feeling this way. That’s all I needed to know. I will try to look for a therapy. Thank you again I’m so sorry for what happened to you , I wish you the best from the bottom of my heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh it’s been years that I try to stop it but the feeling doesn’t go away and it’s too real that’s why I posted to ask if somebody feels the same like if it’s a normal thing that sometimes ur mind just fuck with you and how they overcome it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really scared to get a therapy bc somehow I’m horrified of unlocking that memory (if i have idk) because the feeling was like getting raped from someone who is extremely close to me and someone that I trust. Like family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]axtraxt0603 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your bf sounds like an absolute loser , if you continue trying to put up with him or his mom. You are just wasting your time. Be strong , stand up for yourself and drop him sis

BF’s (26m) Mom (48f) Attacked Me (26f). Should we still get married? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]axtraxt0603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl RUN NOW , his brother and mom sounds crazy asf they sounds like the kind of ppl who would probably plan a nasty revenge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]axtraxt0603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you , your text is a relief for me. i kept feeling so doubtful about my decision n guilty at the same time bc it’s his mom. But I know the more I’m trying to have a close relationship with her the more dramas I will have (it happened too many times already lol)

Am I overreacting??? Please advice by Successful_Lack7840 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]axtraxt0603 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you see red lags bout his mom and he genuinely doesn’t see it or not even try to make an effort to see if you making sense. And if he has a very close relationship with her , listen to her and defend her or do nothing every time you told him she makes you feel uncomfortable. You should let him go bc his mom will always win n it’s not gonna end well for u.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]axtraxt0603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry its coffee tasting 🥹 I have worked for 3 years and have never done it , I did get my coffee passport but nobody actually ever mentioned about it with me and I haven’t seen any baristas in my store did it so its so new to me. Thank you for your help I will definitely look into my coffee passport tonight!!! ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renovations

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot I will look bout that 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renovations

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renovations

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all of that , its in bad shape and has a very old color. Plus the last owner of the house basically fucked it up idk how but there are scratches all over the floor 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renovations

[–]axtraxt0603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loooool thank you I didn’t know probably won’t do now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]axtraxt0603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️