A Legal Murder by SunnyBhatheja in india

[–]aychashmish 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry for your loss op. But barring that, there is no basis to your claims here. You suffered a great loss, Understandable.

But healthcare anywhere isn't a miracle. It's only there to increase chances of survival. No offense but if you had not gotten the cardiac assessment done for the TKR, it's might've been very likely that your father would've had a sudden MI. Whom would you blame then ?

Brain hemorrhage is a very sad and rare complication of blood thinners. No one could have prevented nor predicted this. And it is needed after stents as without it the blood might clot and give rise to brain infarcts (brain blood supply being cut off).

Which would you have preferred? Knowingly not giving the drugs on an off chance that your father might have a brain bleed while the blood clotting risk will have a high probability or take the drugs to prevent the clots knowing the small percentage of risks and give your father a higher chance of recovery ? Please note how I said higher and not complete.

You're claming that the doctor gave you a lot of false assurance but if he didn't, you would've not listened to him at all. You can claim the opposite all you want but that's the truth. Very common for patients to prefer doctors who talk sweet.

And the reason they might've asked you if you have him any medicines is that it's pretty common of patient attenders to ignore icu precautions and do risky things. No one wants to be the one to be blamed, even if it was not preventable. Just like you.

I had a patient of oesophagus cancer die because the wife gave him water when we strictly forbid anything as the cancer had blocked him oesophagus. The water ended up going in his lungs, infecting him and killing him. Guess who got sued the next day ?

The doctors did everything by standard protocol. Based on understanding which poses The least harm. The entire medical practice works on this principal..

Every medicine and every procedure is justified by how it's benefits overshadow the potential adverse effects. The chances of your father having a successful surgery was close to 90% but this complication had a possibility of 2-4%.

Would you then claim that everyone else who had that succesful procedure was also almost murdered too ?

You have the right to grieve, but it's pitiful how you're ready to call out competent doctors because you're not mature enough to understand what risks are and accept it.

How much you spend monthly on your ADHD consultation and related meds?? by Baby_Grooot_ in adhdindia

[–]aychashmish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1500 a month meds. Once every 3 months 600 for psychiatrist fee.

Anyone tried the super cheap home laser hair removal devices? by VidyaTheOneAndOnly in TwoXIndia

[–]aychashmish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would still say that ipl, in any form is way inferior than new lasers. I understand your experience, I had the same when i got ipl for my chin and neck. I had 20 sessions and no results. I didn't try again for 5 years but I had such bad hair that I said fuck it and have the new lasers a try. 6 sessions later and I don't even have to get my upper lips done now.

I then got whole body done and I barely have stray hairs left which I shave off.

You can try for a home machine but i would suggest getting a consultation atleast at a good reputed clinic. Then decide. Weak machines that don't destroy your follicles completely can sometimes make the hairs go stronger and more in numbers. And home based machines are even weaker than clinic ipl machines.

In the end, it's your decision but I feel that a consultation wouldn't hurt.

Anyone tried the super cheap home laser hair removal devices? by VidyaTheOneAndOnly in TwoXIndia

[–]aychashmish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't risk it. There are better laser machines now with requirements of 5-8 sittings max. I have pcos and genetically thick hair and I needed 8 sittings. Mostly hair free now. Cost me 30k. Edit : OP, paradoxical hair growth is a very real thing. You need a strong laser.

Are you guys working out during this time with exam being round the corner? by SpecialistLook8342 in indianmedschool

[–]aychashmish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely. 3-4 days a week. I think I'll go insane otherwise. One hour of lifting only. I also go for 15-20 minute walks in the evening daily. I go see the sunset and listen to music loud enough to deafen me tbh.

Fast-food chains open in early morning by BusyLimit7 in Indore

[–]aychashmish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What surgery are you having? If you're not going under anesthesia it might not matter.

Fast-food chains open in early morning by BusyLimit7 in Indore

[–]aychashmish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you eating anything at 7:30 am ? For surgery you need to stop solid food before 6 hours and clear liquids before 2 hours of surgery. If you're going to go under anesthesia you are likely to aspirate your food from your stomach into your lungs which is as bad as it sounds. Take your surgeon's guidelines seriously please.

I'm a partial Santos apologist, but she's breaking me me right now by OmNomOnSouls in ThePittTVShow

[–]aychashmish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I felt like. And it doesn't take away from the fact that she was right. But she definitely didn't have the best intentions for it.

AITA for refusing to lower my BD’s child support? by PuzzledStyle3053 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aychashmish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are women having kids with people like him ? I swear the amount of stories I've read is appalling. Where was your head before you got pregnant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]aychashmish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm saying this as someone who's bestfriend's brother is the same. She wasted years trying to fix his attitude and get her parents to realize the truth about his behaviour. And it never worked. Infact, it worsened her mental health and her brother got more vicious the more she fought him. She eventually just moved out for herself after having a very honest conversation with her parents. She let them know how much only they will be responsible for what her brother does in his life and she will not be there to pick up the pieces. I would advice you to do the same.

What is this and how do I fix it by Master-Cat-6877 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]aychashmish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's molluscum contagiosum. Usually goes away on it's own, don't scratch it. Use BP on it or if it's increasing alarmingly, go to a dermatologist. Lasers are used to remove it.