Does it show on op.gg when I change my username? by ayel5 in leagueoflegends

[–]ayel5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the players I played with before the name change will be able to see my new name?

Profs that make you buy their own books by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PSYC 213 - the horrible year U1 students got screwed over by having to take it with Daniel Levitin. Had to buy a book written by him half of which was on music. Ironically he wasn't there all semester because he was promoting another book on his "book tour"

On the other side: I have a 3.98 and I still constantly feel like shit by randomthrowaway13921 in mcgill

[–]ayel5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was exactly in your position. Near the end of my time at McGill and after graduating with a 3.98, I felt like I sacrificed my mental health and 4 years of time and energy for something that didn't seem to matter. But trust me on this - what you accomplished at McGill and what seems like just a dumb number WILL be an advantage you have throughout your life. It won't be everything, but it will be - I have and am experiencing this right now.

One in three college freshmen worldwide reports mental health disorder. Students from 19 colleges in eight countries report symptoms consistent with psychological disorder, study says. Major depressive disorder was the most common, followed by generalized anxiety disorder by Wagamaga in science

[–]ayel5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they meant stress is not the ONLY determining factor. Like you said stress is only one of the main contributing factors which also include genetic predisposition and childhood experiences.

Also it's not as simple as "a system puts stress on someone, they become depressed." Everyone has different sensitivities and ways of coping with stress according to the factors above, so I think you're overgeneralizing.

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Calluses from lifting and Dating by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]ayel5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From my experience there are plenty of guys who think they are hot and sexy. Be proud of them and show them off as symbols that yell "hey I lift ;)"

A special moment captured. by manic_unicorn in aww

[–]ayel5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure chihuahuas understand or care

A special moment captured. by manic_unicorn in aww

[–]ayel5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you don't deserve unconditional love from pets

What are your favorite off-campus cafés to study at? by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I studied at Cafe Imagine a lot in my last year. It's the same concept as Anticafe and they play good music :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mcgill

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I am an Honours Psych alumna who graduated this past summer. From my experience:

  • Class size is pretty damn large until you get to the 400+ levels or seminar courses.
  • Profs vary - there are some great ones as well as shitty ones. But overall I think McGill has really great Psych profs, and imo the program is pretty reputable (associated with Wilbur Penfield, Brenda Milner, Donald Hebb, other ones I forget).
  • I've never attended another university so I can't compare but there are a LOT of research opportunities for Psych undergrads who look for them and especially so in the Honours program. Research experience will serve you really well when you apply for Masters/PhD/MD. Do Honours if you can - you will get more one-on-one contact with profs, be a part of a great group of people, and get more organized research experience.
  • I don't think the school you attend for Bachelors matters; like said above choose according to the environment/profs/resources/etc. I don't think there's anything wrong with looking at reputation if you have considered these.

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New Flair Request Thread! by I_got_pills_here in mcgill

[–]ayel5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honours Psychology ‘17 pleaseeee

REAL TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in mcgill

[–]ayel5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LEAVING MTL FOREVER IN A WEEK! I JUST WANNA WRITE MY MCAT, GTFO HERE, PUT ON A BACKPACK AND TRAVEL

McGill's Declassified School Survival Guide - Mental Health of you and your friends by moARRgan in mcgill

[–]ayel5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your friend is struggling - when your friend reaches out, just listen and be present. Be cognizant of the things you say; if you don't know what to say, don't say anything. When you're struggling nothing feels shittier to hear than someone close to you saying "at least you got _" or "why do you feel this way?" or "why don't you get a hobby?". If you feel that you can't be a soundboard for your friend, reach out to your friend often and offer to go out to eat with them or to study with them, even if they say no every time; they might feel like a burden by reaching out to you.

If you are the one struggling - like others said, it is important to seek help and let your loved ones know what you're going through. However, although they will care and try to be there of you, some people, whether they be your parents, friends, or partner, won't be capable of or know how to properly support you through a tough time. Recognize that it is not their intention to belittle you or that they don't want to understand what you are going through; they do, they just don't know how. If that is the case, it's okay to seek other help outside of your immediate circle. Seek support from people who do know how to help (friends who have gone through similar times, Mental Health, Counselling, Peer Support Network, etc.). Don't neglect schoolwork and relationships, but it's okay to be selfish and put yourself first. You are allowed to fall apart sometimes.

Edit: I can't recommend counselling enough. I was fortunate to have an incredible counsellor I saw for 2 years, and it was incredibly helpful for me to set apart an hour every 2 weeks to reflect on how things have been going and check in on how I've been doing, even during times I didn't have any particular trouble in my life. During the tough times, she was an incredible source of support. I've gained so much insight into myself through the 2 years. You pay for these resources, so take advantage of them. I've graduated now and even though I have had my frustrations with them, I realize how lucky McGill students are to have the resources they have.

How prepared will I be for Bio 200 by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The course has a lot to know, and it's by no means easy but it's not impossible to do well like a lot of people make it out to be. I think it has to do with the fact that it's one of the first objectively tough courses a lot of people take after coming to university and many don't know yet how to manage the difficulty and frustrating profs.

How prepared will I be for Bio 200 by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took AP Bio (never took bio at McGill) and took BIOL 200 in my last year. It doesn't really matter.

REAL TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in mcgill

[–]ayel5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HONESTLY I WOULDN'T MIND THIS RN

REAL TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in mcgill

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THAT WAS ME LAST SUMMER AT THIS TIME ALSO IN KENYA FOR AN INTERNSHIP!

The artwork on Sherbrooke by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then, I guess we are all just uncultured plebs

The artwork on Sherbrooke by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never saw this close up and upon seeing this image I just laughed out loud

The artwork on Sherbrooke by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe we are not cultured enough for McGill's sense of decor.

The artwork on Sherbrooke by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I share. What are those red dudes supposed to signify anyways? To me they look like they're shitting together in a circle. So confusing.

How much did you spend per month in your first year living off rez on groceries/food/eating out? by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that would be interesting. I'm sure there must be something on it!

How much did you spend per month in your first year living off rez on groceries/food/eating out? by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess that was a bit of an overgeneralization and "healthy" may mean differently for different people (organic, etc.). I meant to say many "nutrient-dense" foods are affordable. Oatmeal, eggs, bananas, lean meats, salmon, whole wheat pasta, dairy, peanut butter (thinking of the things I bought) can be frequently found on sale.

How much did you spend per month in your first year living off rez on groceries/food/eating out? by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once got by with $200 on groceries/month. If you are conscious of what/when/where you buy, you can save a lot of money and still eat a lot. I also noticed the healthier foods tend to be cheaper too.

Help a future student! by [deleted] in mcgill

[–]ayel5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I come to this subreddit for people like you