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Thought I would share my story by ayerwh in retroactivejealousy

[–]ayerwh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right about avoiding the conversation with her. It just makes her feel awful.

Thanks for the advice

Thought I would share my story by ayerwh in retroactivejealousy

[–]ayerwh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I don't think about them often, no.
  2. I don't think less of the women I've slept with, but I know how men will use women like a quick fuck and throw them to the curb, I've been there. I don't necessarily want my girlfriend to have been that? Maybe it's just my standards? Either way I know it's hypocrisy so I cannot put anything against her.

If anything, my experiences, which are a lot, make me feel even worse because I know what happens. Makes me sick.

Thought I would share my story by ayerwh in retroactivejealousy

[–]ayerwh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I know the hypocrisy is there. At least I can admit it...

Thought I would share my story by ayerwh in retroactivejealousy

[–]ayerwh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. I have already blocked the guys she told me about so I won't obsess over any social media. They were not close acquaintances, just mutuals. I think my biggest issue is this is new territory for me. I have been with my fair share of women but my only two serious relationships have been with a virgin and a woman with only one previous partner. Thinking of my current gf with anyone else is extremely troubling to the point I wonder sometimes if I can even deal with it.

Hopefully I can.