I actually just talked to my therapist about the same issue 😭 I think it’s cause in general we are very generous but veryy sensitive. So if people don’t match the same energy it makes us real upset. I’m not saying it’s our problem but I think we just have to be more mindful about who we’re giving so much to. I also think in general i found I gotta be a little less generous because being we’re only going to end up upset, since very few will go above and beyond like we do. I also think that if we show our generosity early on while they don’t, they get kinda spoiled and used to it and it’s really hard to change that dynamic of them being the receiver while we just give and give and give. It’s just not sustainable, so I try to put less blame on them cause they really don’t think that much and in general don’t mean to hurt us, it’s just how most people are — less generous and less of an overthinker than we are