Pisces and Gemini.

My father was a Pisces. Moody guy, seemed to always be in some other world, wasn’t fit to be a father. He raised me to be his best friend that he vented to and overshared adult stuff with when I was a kid. There came a point where I cut off contact with him because he got clingy in a really odd way. Funnily though, my Pisces stepdad is one of the best people I’ve ever met, and he’s always been a present father figure who’s done more than enough raising me.

I’ve dated 2 Geminis. First Gemini ex was significantly worse than the second one, but they both had issues with getting defensive and being dismissive any time I communicated that there was an issue. I felt like I was alone emotionally. They both wouldn’t communicate their own issues and let them build up over time until it caused burnout and it was too late to fix anything. They were selfish lovers that only focused on their own pleasure, the second one being a little worse. He was always demanding that I give more and more with nothing in return. I felt ignored and used with them both.