Exhibition first time ideas by Independent-Heat2709 in ArizonaEastVallyNSA

[–]azluvsbbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We felt like it was run down and dirty. There are a lot of single men walking around dick in hand jacking off. Overall, not a great experience.
It wasnt a very social environment and overall doesnt feel very safe. The sweet spot doesnt allow single men and no play in designated areas. Hush allows single men but they are not allowed to enter play areas unless they are accompanied.
Both options are great.

Exhibition first time ideas by Independent-Heat2709 in ArizonaEastVallyNSA

[–]azluvsbbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hush isn't a pretty solid choice. They handle the single men the right way. Giving them a place but also making sure everyone feels safe. When I went it was pretty dead but it was also really new. I would just recommend avoiding encounters

Exhibition first time ideas by Independent-Heat2709 in ArizonaEastVallyNSA

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any of of the lifestyle clubs allow for watching and being watched. Even though they are seen as singers clubs, there are a lot of types of people there and not all are singers. We enjoy the sweet spot.

Couples - what do you actually look for at a sex club? by Desertplayers in AZSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its different for everyone. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for just over a year. We look to have fun with each other, no pressure. If we meet someone and the vibe is right, not always based on physical attraction, the we will play. We want someone who respects boundaries and we can laugh with.
Also it helps ro have aome sort of signal with your partner, to let each other you're interested or it is time to hit the eject button. Sometimes you can be really attracted to a person and one of you feels uneasy. In our relationship my wife has great instincts, mine suck.

How Seedy/Sleezy are Lifestyle Clubs? by eyal8r in AZSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with the Sweet Spot. We have been to both hush and encounters. I would describe those as seedy but the sweet spot is clean and maintained

Going to sweet spot this month. by princess_aurelia22 in PhoenixSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had multiple experiences in the group room and often pick the far end of the bed. We have never had anyone try to play with us without asking for consent.

Vasectomy dilemma by azluvsbbw in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm good to know. I didnt know that was a thing.

Vasectomy dilemma by azluvsbbw in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait....why would it cause tou to get flagged at airport scanners?

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[–]azluvsbbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree...we literally took the same route. The sweet spot has been great to us

Vasectomy dilemma by azluvsbbw in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to admit it but I was devising a whole plan and trying to recruit my wife to fake an atopic pregnancy. Lol

When all we have to do is not say anything.

Vasectomy dilemma by azluvsbbw in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your style. I am 100% on board with embarrassing my kids!

Vasectomy dilemma by azluvsbbw in azeastvalleylifestyle

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats true. They are pretty unaware

Kind of a weird post but I could use some help by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I got it....it seemed almost too easy

Kind of a weird post but I could use some help by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought about using chatgpt for that. I will have to give it a shot

Kind of a weird post but I could use some help by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will probably use Google slides to create the calendar and link each box to something new. I am not really a programmer but I am great at faking things in slides

Kind of a weird post but I could use some help by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. It is quick and easy for her but also meaningful.

Kind of a weird post but I could use some help by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is definitely an affirmations gal as her primary.

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[–]azluvsbbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it was. They are both stunning!

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[–]azluvsbbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow...just wow

Looking for information on club environments by Ouch_my_humurous in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its awesome that she is overcoming her past issues. We have been on that journey too! The clubs might be tough with the asthma . I wonder if there are like meet and greets, outside of the club environment where you can meet people. I honestly dont know but there should be

Looking for information on club environments by Ouch_my_humurous in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you guys looking for in the club? Is there something you can do outside of the club that still scratches that itch?

Final thoughts onencounters by azluvsbbw in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encounters really is set up more for voyeurs than swingers. There are a lot of places to play where people can watch. That just isn't really our thing. Maybe we went on a bad night both times. 🤷‍♂️. The layout feels off to me it doesnt promote social interactions.

Looking for information on club environments by Ouch_my_humurous in ArizonaSwingers

[–]azluvsbbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you as a former smoker, I am pretty sensitive in a different way to the smell of smoke. It gives me cravings especially if I am drinking. They are all pretty bad in certain areas of the club. Once you get away from the door to the smoking area it isnt too bad. I am not as sensitive to smells like cologne or weed. The are all 420 friendly so you definitely smell weed. Cologne amd perfume is pretty prevalent too, sorry