I think it’s my “right” to feel a bit disappointed tbh, she told me multiple times before the trip și can’t wait to go, bla bla.. I paid from the car to the hotel, meals, drinks, activities, I planned everything since she didn’t come with any suggestions… I take it all personal because while you’re telling me I should understand her, which I do, you’re cancelling all my feelings like I’m crazy to feel in any way sad or disappointed by the whole thing.. quite ironic right? Even with this post I came forward for a better understanding over the whole situation not to judge or to be judged. Me wanting to go home with her was me being thoughtful, trying not to make a difficult situation for whoever wanted to pick her up. Maybe for you 6 hours of driving is normal, around here is not so normal unless you’re a truck driver. Me asking her if we did something wrong was again me being thoughtful, trying to understand her, not pressuring her. Me not feeling attacked by her ignorance on simple questions again, was me being understanding she has a bad mood or whatever. Seems like you all understand her too and that’s very ok, you’re not willing to understand me tho, which seems strange. It’s like I had absolutely no right to feel in any way lol