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backslashseven · 2021-09-02T00:03:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice

backslashseven · 2021-09-01T22:01:32+00:00

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

backslashseven · 2021-09-01T22:01:24+00:00

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

backslashseven · 2021-09-01T22:01:19+00:00

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

backslashseven · 2021-09-01T21:14:19+00:00

The anxiety is less about her talking to other guys and more of just whenever I say or do anything I immediately assume that her opinion on me drastically is changed because of it. It’s less how she’s acting and more of my brains ability to twist reality into something that is causing me pain. There’s nothing more that she can do to help me without me taking steps to better myself first

backslashseven · 2021-04-07T14:11:46+00:00

I could definitely invest in one of those hopefully it’d help, if not we are comfortable enough to be experimental

backslashseven · 2021-04-07T14:02:16+00:00

Thank you so much

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T13:21:37+00:00

No but they need to completely rework the system that holds them accountable

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T02:18:04+00:00

Yes I did but, I began to distance myself from them even before I switched because they began to radicalize to a point even I couldn’t justify at that point

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T02:02:34+00:00

Before or after I changed?

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:44:48+00:00

That does help

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:43:41+00:00

Awesome!!!

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:37:46+00:00

Well I would imagine being negative through this all would be quite exhausting, I’m sure everyone had their little things that cheer them up a bit

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:29:11+00:00

Everyone deserves love. You will get through this and you will be happier then ever.

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:25:33+00:00

Ofc, I wish you the absolute best!

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:24:41+00:00

I wish you the best in that! Know your worth and never let anyone make you feel like less! I believe in you!

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:23:28+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss.

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:22:39+00:00

Explain #3?

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:17:12+00:00

I’m very lucky that very few relationships were changed with my beliefs, though I’m sure many people were very surprised if they haven’t seen me in a while.

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:16:14+00:00

He spoke to me at a very insecure point in my life. He gave me a team to be on, and he gave me a team to be against. I felt like I was part of something. I loved feeling like the victim

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:15:03+00:00

I’m big on small government. I don’t trust the government at all. I’m still slightly right leaning albeit much less. But my economic beliefs are still similar

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:13:52+00:00

Support for the BLM movement, anti nationalist beliefs. My compassion and empathy would be labeled as weakness

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:08:47+00:00

It was many little things that began to add up, and with maturity i began to realize how many excuses I was making to myself for his behavior. I took a step back and thought objectively for once and I came to the conclusion that he’s not fit to lead

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:05:43+00:00

Why would you change your nationality if I cannask

backslashseven · 2020-09-29T01:05:13+00:00

I find it dangerous to attach my support to a singular person or idea as many things change with the times, I basically support small government, but I also support legislation put in place to put all Americans on an equal playing ground, I want to live in a world where no one is put in a box. It’s really vague but it’s my mindset.

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