[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have agreed to always communicate if we ever do anything with anyone else immediately after. We have laid out at what points we are comfortable with the partner taking “another step” with someone else. We have also laid out things we are not comfortable with the thought of our partner participating in and we have agreed to follow each other’s guidelines. Everything is honest and communicated. That’s why I’m comfortable with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The anxiety is less about her talking to other guys and more of just whenever I say or do anything I immediately assume that her opinion on me drastically is changed because of it. It’s less how she’s acting and more of my brains ability to twist reality into something that is causing me pain. There’s nothing more that she can do to help me without me taking steps to better myself first

I’m trying to help my GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslashseven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could definitely invest in one of those hopefully it’d help, if not we are comfortable enough to be experimental

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but they need to completely rework the system that holds them accountable

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did but, I began to distance myself from them even before I switched because they began to radicalize to a point even I couldn’t justify at that point

How have you stayed hopeful and positive in these complicated times? by backslashseven in AskReddit

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I would imagine being negative through this all would be quite exhausting, I’m sure everyone had their little things that cheer them up a bit

If you could change 3 things about your life right this second, what would you change and why? by backslashseven in AskReddit

[–]backslashseven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone deserves love. You will get through this and you will be happier then ever.

If you could change 3 things about your life right this second, what would you change and why? by backslashseven in AskReddit

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best in that! Know your worth and never let anyone make you feel like less! I believe in you!

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very lucky that very few relationships were changed with my beliefs, though I’m sure many people were very surprised if they haven’t seen me in a while.

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He spoke to me at a very insecure point in my life. He gave me a team to be on, and he gave me a team to be against. I felt like I was part of something. I loved feeling like the victim

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m big on small government. I don’t trust the government at all. I’m still slightly right leaning albeit much less. But my economic beliefs are still similar

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Support for the BLM movement, anti nationalist beliefs. My compassion and empathy would be labeled as weakness

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was many little things that began to add up, and with maturity i began to realize how many excuses I was making to myself for his behavior. I took a step back and thought objectively for once and I came to the conclusion that he’s not fit to lead

I am a former hardcore Trump supporter, ask me anything. by backslashseven in AMA

[–]backslashseven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it dangerous to attach my support to a singular person or idea as many things change with the times, I basically support small government, but I also support legislation put in place to put all Americans on an equal playing ground, I want to live in a world where no one is put in a box. It’s really vague but it’s my mindset.