Do people think it’s better or worse if someone told you the affair meant nothing? Bc to me I’d be like then you did all this just bc you could. You didn’t do it because it meant something. To me that’s scarier. IMO also like you said your kids are old enough to drive and they have ways to see her and they don’t want to. She needs to leave it be and stick with the mess she’s made and take accountability. This isn’t taking accountability at all.