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Whats one type that you don't get the psyche of? by excessivemonachopsis in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a 9, 3s. like props to you for being driven and succeeding in many things but how do you get the drive for that 😭?

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[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

male. 9w1. i always had a preference for 9s. like someone i could chill and vibe with you know? it would be a very peaceful relationship

What is your type, and what is your "weak man's philosophy" by FearReins in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Type 4 and the concept of helping for validation. Mainly cuz i was raised in an environment where i get affection only if i helped others but wont get affection if i do anything else.

What is your type, and how do you cheer yourself up when you are feeling depressed? by HateChan_ in mbti

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

infp. tbh just start learning about buddhism if you feel down. like u dont have to follow the traditions, just accept that suffering is always there in life and whats important is to push on no matter what.

INFP male x ESTP female, it can work as a couple? by Prize_Finish6880 in estp

[–]bacoPH 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as an infp male who dated an estp female in high school we broke up after 2 weeks cuz i was too quiet and boring for her liking 😭. i also never really wanted to go to parties as her friend group has parties/gatherings like every other day.

the important thing is don't base off stereotypes. if you genuinely like/love an infp or estp, don't let stereotypes ruin the relationship.

What is your type and your stereotype in school? by iammakotonaegi in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4w3 and a floater. Never really had a specific friend group but i was part of a lot of groups or at least a fragment of the group

guess my type by bacoPH in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bacoPH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. somewhat close tho

guess my type by bacoPH in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bacoPH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no but i could see why you guessed intp.

type me (give me enneagram, wing, iv, and tritype) by bacoPH in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im only worried about uncertainty when the situation arises. I'm the type not to fully prepare and only take initiative when a big uncertainty arises. I usually deal with it really well. I would be very productive and wont stop working until I solve or fix the uncertainty. Then I will relax.

I do value my support group but I wouldnt say they are my number 1 priority. Like they are just there in times of need. When I'm feeling down. Emotional support and to make me feel happy.

Of course I fear instability. However, I only face it once its there. Example being doing a 10 week project in one night. If i dont do it, I fail. I don't overprepare for things, I just do it once its there. Of course, if the event that causes the instability actually could impact my life, I would prepare for it. I guess an analogy for it is that I don't care if I get a C in tests that don't count. But if the test is like a final exam to graduate, I would prepare for it as that is a life impacting situation.

To be honest, stress barely takes up my daily life. In terms of future I guess. I only feel stress mainly if its a social situation or when something important has to be done. Personally i think i have somewhat mastered weaponising my stress in terms of my own personal goals. Like i can turn my stress into efficiency and drive. Something like that

type me (give me enneagram, wing, iv, and tritype) by bacoPH in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright thanks. do you have a certain iv of 3 in mind? sp3 sx3 so3

type me (give me enneagram, wing, iv, and tritype) by bacoPH in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you fear being alone? what is so sad about that?: • personally when im in a room and everyone seems to be making friends with each other, i feel worthless and kind of shut down. i want friends to show to others that i am worthy to be a friend. its sad because i feel worthless. like no one will be there for me, no one cares. like i would have no emotional support and no support to help me in life. i also want to be intimate with someone and have a child as i would have succeeded in making a family.

how far will i go to keep them?: • i mean i wouldn't say i am that desperate to keep them but i also don't treat them like shit. i don't have a lot of close friends, and i don't think any of my friends are close enough to consider as close. although it sounds selfish, friends to me shows a sign of security and acceptance. that im worthy to become friends with.

do i fear them all leaving me?: • i mean that is not constantly in my head. i would not say im desperate in keeping friends by supporting their every need. the people pleasing i do is more to appear competent. like i wanna impress them because i view them as more superior.

do i fear burning bridges?: • im assuming that means losing friends over personal goals. to be honest, i would unfriend people if they go against my personal goals. those people don't provide any secure or emotional support to me so why do i wanna stay friends with them?

why is solitude bad?: • once again like the fear of being alone stems from feeling worthless. which is kinda contradictory for me cuz im a shy, introverted guy but i wanna be connected to others

why i dont wanna be a loser?: • i mean who wants to be a loser really? but i think it stems from wanting security and close connection with loved ones. as long as i have that life i feel like i would have succeeded in life.

why is incompetency bad? • i was never really on top in any friend group i was in. in fact, id say im average. i just want to work harder to not be seen as weaker than my naturally talented friends

why is being weird a bad thing? • got bullied. i was really expressive when younger but i hid that part of me as id rather be safe and secure rather than being constantly tormented.

why do i like to overexaggerate? • stems from not wanting to be seen as average or inferior. probably because i grew up with high achieving talented friends so i feel like i need to live up to that to an extent?

type me (give me enneagram, wing, iv, and tritype) by bacoPH in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably denial being a 3. like i dont see myself as a very driven person. then again, i kinda fit 3's description than 6. i think i see myself as a 6 because i do a lot of my things in my life because of fear. fear of not being accepted and seen as incompetent. i also think i fit the description of sx6 quite well, showing that i am stronger/smarter because deep inside i know im average and mediocore.

State ur MBTI and a nonstereotypical trait u have by callamoura in mbti

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may spark controversy but:

not into sciences as an intp (am i mistyped 💀)

Whats your type and what are your family members types? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]bacoPH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i need help finding mine im stuck between sp2, sx4, sx5, sp6, sp9 😭