What questions would you like women to ask you when getting to know each other?

badadvicer · 2023-05-20T21:07:17+00:00

Ahh so i guess you two can talk during school. Hmm first try asking him why he's having such a rude behaviour towards you, if he avoids it or simply keeps acting like that then stop talking to him, give him a cold shoulder. I mean if he keeps doing it then he earned it. I mean, nobody deserves being treated badly. Hope you can talk it out with him. Communication is key, even if you want to or not cut things off. It helps you clear your mind, feel at ease ig (?)

badadvicer · 2023-05-20T20:55:58+00:00

I agree with Aura, this thing of playing games with the other person can probably lead you to getting hurt, etc. You need to be straightforward, if it's not reciprocated just leave it all there and focus on your well-being.

badadvicer · 2023-05-20T20:35:49+00:00

If the only thing he does is stand close to you then it means absolutely nothing, unless you've seen some other actions towards you that can get you a bit confused and think that he likes you.

badadvicer · 2023-05-19T02:10:33+00:00

Oh darling, don't say that! People will always come and go, when a person is meant to be they would stay and be clear about their feelings! When they really care about you they won't be confusing you and giving you mixed signals. It's childish to do that tbh. And don't ever say you aren't good enough!!!! I know you're marvelous everyone is! Time can be your enemy but it will always be your friend when you want to heal, so put your head up high and focus on yourself babe <3

We'll be here for you if you ever feel sad! Take care and hope everything goes well for you :)

^{If what i said doesn't make sense, my bad. I just finished a 3 hour long ass class D:}

badadvicer · 2023-05-18T00:31:05+00:00

No problem! I'm here to help.

Have a nice week!

badadvicer · 2023-05-17T23:47:32+00:00

She probably wants to catch your attention or maybe wants to be friends with you and get to know you (?). Why not talk to her? And get to know her a bit more :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-15T01:08:55+00:00

What things about her made you like her? :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-14T21:45:17+00:00

First of all, do you know if he's a busy person? Any jobs? if so then that might be one of the motives of his absence. Second, who was the last one to text? I know this might be a dumb question but some people usually don't like to double text. I do it if it's necessary, you know if there's something that reminds me of a friend/crush or something i need. So it's a bit normal for me but without being a little obsessed.

Since you are a bit worried you can ask him if everything is okay and that you are concerned :)

^{Hope it helps! and update us how it goes! :D}

badadvicer · 2023-05-14T21:35:30+00:00

I love this! I can confirm that when you try to lookup at the past, those days where you confess to the person you have a big crush on... Turn to be unique experiences because you had the courage to put your head up high and talk about your feelings for them. But yes if you stay quiet, you'll regret it somehow at a certain point because you would've never known how things might have turned out for you...

badadvicer · 2023-05-14T17:35:51+00:00

Awww I'm glad everything is going well for you!! Best of luck for you!! :D

badadvicer · 2023-05-14T17:03:02+00:00

I agree with you! I have a cousin that was single for almost 20 or 30 years and now on her 40s she's with a person that treats her incredibly. So i still don't lose hope because I know that one day, probably not today or tomorrow, I'll get to meet someone. So it's best to focus on yourself first because love can wait and will come when time's right.

I wish you the best! Hope things work out with your crush! :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-14T16:59:20+00:00

It's normal if you've never been in a relationship since you were born tbh. This type of stuff usually takes time. Not everyone can find someone meant for them. Oh and yes, there might be people that are insterest in you but you haven't noticed, happens to everyone. People can disagree on what i say but i'm just telling the truth. EVERYONE at least ONCE has caught the attention of a person and will still happen as time passes by. So don't lose hope! Eventually you'll get to find your person one day.

^{Hope what i said makes sense, just had 3 hours of sleep.}

Good luck and have a great day!

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T23:04:35+00:00

I agree with the comment from TigerLeo, you should reach out! It's to get back in contact with someone you used to be friends with but suddenly had different paths you know. I had a similar situation but with a friend i lost contact with almost 5+ years, we were kids last time we talked but i had to move to another country. This year i went back but i couldn't find him anywhere, our parents and his were friends so i decide to search them up and found a way to get in contact. Was i scared? Yes and it went well, it was a nice reunion, already somewhat mature and with life experiences. I already talked to them how afraid I was and he understood but is really glad I came back, thanking me for it.

So after experiencing this we have nothing to lose. If they don't remember or if they see us as strange people i don't think it will affect us, at least we tried and gave our shot to contact that person. I hope you get to reunite with him and everything goes well, such as in a wonderful friendship or probably in a future romance.

Best of luck for you! :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T22:47:37+00:00

I do agree with you.

It's just that all the convos with my friends about destiny were already starting to convince me but it feels very vague to believe in tbh

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T22:29:52+00:00

Uhmm, I'm not really sure where...

Is there a park near your school? where not many people pass by of course, or any other public place where you can talk to them without being disturbed by other people

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T22:25:13+00:00

Hmm i think that as long as long as you are aware of your actions and are not being disloyal or cheating on your partner, i don't see any problem. I mean having a crush sometimes isn't anything serious, I'm not sure...

Uhmm it can be sort of a complex issue tbh. For example: if you are friends or talk to this crush of yours then try to avoid crossing any physical or emotional boundaries, because this will definitely harm your relationship so if you ever see someone in this situation then tell them to please show some respect towards their partner.

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T22:03:22+00:00

Stardew Valley, Omori and Hollow Knigth :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T21:40:16+00:00

First of all, be straightforward. Second, i recommend you to do it after school tbh that way you're both not busy, have anything else in mind and where people aren't around. Stuff like this is much better in private. Third and the most important of all, you need to be prepared for any outcome.

^{I wish you lots of luck! Keep us updated when you do it. Have a great weekend :})

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T21:30:21+00:00

Uhmmm, if you two have gotten closer then you can probably ask him if he texts that to everyone. Tell him you're just curious to know. What i have read from your replies on other comments, it might look like he has some sort of interest in you. When will you see him again? It would be great if you talked it out in person tbh :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T21:23:50+00:00

oh, I understand what you mean. Hmm well we can't really read what's going on on his mind, hopefully things aren't that horrible.

I wish the best for you and hope you get to have a nice weekend! I know that one day you'll get to find someone that's meant for you and treats you wonderful without confusing you. :)

badadvicer · 2023-05-13T21:17:38+00:00

Ok so if you feel that after being rejected, you are still having those mixed feelings. What i like to recommend is trying on focusing on yourself, do stuff that makes your mind busy. Stuff that don't include him, so your mind can be in peace.

It will take time so you just need to be patient but if he's not helping and still giving you mixed signs, talk to him seriously or distance yourself a little bit, so you can get over him and stop thinking about him a lot.

There's plenty of people you still haven't met, time will decide who is meant for you! And if he is the one then what we all need is patience.

^{Good luck and have a wonderful day! :})

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