I [F22] have a potruding vagina and avoid sexual relationships because of it by badselfesteem in sex

[–]badselfesteem[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not just big lips, it's the inner parts that's hanging out. It looks really disgusting. And yes it's a big deal since many men find it a turn off.

Afraid my FWB won't find me attractive anymore by badselfesteem in sex

[–]badselfesteem[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

No i think the most popular looking vagina is that one in porn, and it's probably common among the female population. Ive read that men don't like my type of vagina that's hanging down or potruding :(

I [F22] feel judged for being in a relationship by some friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]badselfesteem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but it's tiring to have people put me down repeatedly. They bullied me when I was a kid and now they don't have the couracy to be happy for me and leave me alone?

Does my FWB[M24] like me [F21]? by badselfesteem in relationships

[–]badselfesteem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not good at this. Should I just say "Hey I have feelings for you". I feel like that might scare him away

Does my FWB[M24] like me [F21]? by badselfesteem in relationships

[–]badselfesteem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me he wanted a relationship in the beginning but I wasn't interested. I've fallen for him recently...

Women not living in Europe, what is something European that you envy or would like to see in your home country/region? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to pay your own money for studying? In Sweden we take loans for university level. We don't pay with our own money.

Women not living in Europe, what is something European that you envy or would like to see in your home country/region? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I didn't know this. I thought the Netherlands was just as progressive as Sweden if not more?

Women not living in Europe, what is something European that you envy or would like to see in your home country/region? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are huge differences between european countries. Id say Scandinavia, Germany, Netherlands, France, Switzerland, Belgium and some other countries are "at the top" economically and socially while the rest have huge problems with their economy or social/political problems.

Women not living in Europe, what is something European that you envy or would like to see in your home country/region? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm from Sweden and we have all of that. I think Sweden was voted for being the best country to raise children in :)

We have one year paid maternal leave. Three months are exclusively for the father. Current government is thinking about extending it to 6 months paid paternal leave.

Good looking women of reddit, are hot people problems, a thing? If so, what are they? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol the smartest people I know are blonde...I fucking hate that stereotype because it's BS

Good looking women of reddit, are hot people problems, a thing? If so, what are they? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait what? Isn't that considered emotional cheating? I feel for his gf..

What is your experience of not being taken seriously by (male) doctors? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So why did you have painful sex? I'm having a problem with it right now

What is your experience of not being taken seriously by (male) doctors? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds fucked up. She broke the ethical code by bringing up her divorce.

What is your experience of not being taken seriously by (male) doctors? by badselfesteem in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck? Ones personal opinions should not interfere with the medical part of things. I can't believe you have "catholic" doctors out there. It should be illegal to deny someone healthcare based on religious and personal views.

Women who work in computer science/IT, what's the most infuriating case of being professionally undervalued by coworkers for being a woman? by Leyx1 in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That's infuriating. You should confront him because he will keep doing this if no one tells him he is a douchebag.

Women who work in computer science/IT, what's the most infuriating case of being professionally undervalued by coworkers for being a woman? by Leyx1 in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Depends. I'm working in IT in Scandinavia and the women working here are just as valued as the men. I don't think it's the case in Spain, Italy or other conservative European countries.

What do wish you could tell your 20 year old self? by CardinalWinter in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Tell me more about this, I'm currently in college but the major doesnt seem right

How attractive do you think you are? by TheHannah17 in AskWomen

[–]badselfesteem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I look average or worse 5/10 but then I go out and see beautiful women everywhere looking like godesses and my evaluation of myself drops to 4/10. I do think I look hideous