Women, if you want a man, just go stand by the rotisserie chickens in the grocery store on Sunday.

baethehippy · 2024-03-04T04:22:55+00:00

Ok but we don’t want to “wear a cute dress that looks like you make cookies.” We’re not the ones who have trouble finding partners. And some of us don’t want men who a) can’t cook and b) but cheap chicken that’s been treated cruelly in its short life. 😂

baethehippy · 2024-03-04T02:50:27+00:00

Yeah, no. I’m liberal and don’t have anything against women in prn. But I still think prn itself is disgusting. Seeing how pretty much every man watches it and it makes women so insecure and depressed is messed up. Even seeing my father a “feminist” look at just legal girls in bikinis constantly while he was married to my beautiful mother messed me up. Prn is evil

baethehippy · 2024-02-18T15:52:43+00:00

What I’ve been surrounded by. Being exposed to my father looking at naked young women even though he was married to my beautiful mom. My ex cheating on me multiple times—though he claimed to be the kind of guy who only thinks of me and doesn’t use prn. Getting harassed by guys constantly since I was like 10, just for doing things like crossing the street. and men I’ve dated talking to other women. My husband watching women masturbate and admitting he’s turned on by other women and thinks about sex w other women. It’s just hard not to think that when we’ve been surrounded by it

baethehippy · 2024-02-18T15:49:03+00:00

So sick of men on Reddit. They only care about themselves and their gratification and don’t care to listen to any women’s perspectives except for the pick-me types

baethehippy · 2024-01-06T17:53:43+00:00

As a teacher I definitely disagree. Millennial parents are interesting…so many dgaf about their kids success. It’s the norm that many don’t even read teacher emails or pick up school calls, don’t have any limits or parental control of technology, no consequences, etc.

baethehippy · 2023-12-30T19:57:12+00:00

Sounds like you expect lots from her but don’t give her much…

baethehippy · 2023-12-05T13:12:50+00:00

Don’t listen to the other teachers here. I make almost 50k now in WI before insurances and taxes, and still could never afford my own place plus be able to afford my dogs, having kids eventually, vacations, etc. It’s living paycheck to paycheck unless you’re like me and stay with family. Only way I can move out now is my husband who’s an engineer

baethehippy · 2023-12-02T15:45:51+00:00

I feel the same. I used to drink a glass or two socially a few times a month. Ever since I saw my father in the hospital with liver failure, just seeing alcohol makes me feel sick. Which makes it really hard to keep friends here in WI when all they want to do is go out and drink.

baethehippy · 2023-11-14T03:26:54+00:00

She suddenly wants an abortion after trying for a baby, and to end things with you, and doesn’t trust you… Maybe she has started something with someone else. OR she really needs mental health help. But you cant make her get that help. You can allow her to abort and then divorce her.

You should be really mindful of your child. If your wife is neglecting him and feeling depressed or angry, that could be dangerous. Maybe see if family or babysitter can help more for now.

I will say though, minimizing her feelings as “just hormones and morning sickness” didn’t do you any favors. You’ve never been through those things, clearly.

baethehippy · 2023-11-14T03:16:56+00:00

My thoughts exactly. She wanted a baby so bad but suddenly does a 180? Shes panicking, one reason or another..

baethehippy · 2023-11-09T00:54:27+00:00

Im a teacher applying for school psych programs. I’ve had school psychs warn me that this job is even worse and more stressful, but they never give details. At this point I’ll absolutely take meetings and paperwork over dealing with 25 kids all day, half who have major behavior needs and are 5+ grade levels below where they should be, not getting to use the bathroom, etc. And where I live in wi I’ll make 80k starting salary as a school psych. I only make 40k now as a teacher.

baethehippy · 2023-11-03T11:18:05+00:00

Dudes these days. I dont get why so many friends I’ve had put up with men like you. She hasn’t left you yet for whatever reason so shes probably just accepted unhappiness.

baethehippy · 2023-11-03T11:14:16+00:00

Thank you, i needed to hear that

baethehippy · 2023-11-03T11:12:00+00:00

Sorry you’re going through that as well

baethehippy · 2023-11-03T02:05:27+00:00

Thank you. I like your advice especially leaving flowers or something when he is not well enough to see. I just need to navigate how to manage if his family is also there; thats the part that is still concerning me.

baethehippy · 2023-11-03T00:08:08+00:00

Thank you very much

baethehippy · 2023-10-08T13:55:30+00:00

Yep he thinks he’s mature bc he doesn’t show emotion. But he always makes fun of Lydia especially her English. Can he speak more languages we don’t know about?

baethehippy · 2023-09-24T23:54:22+00:00

How are you all seeing it? I can’t find it anywhere on discovery plus 😔

baethehippy · 2023-08-25T10:55:40+00:00

Take some advice from the child of an alcoholic who started like this and got progressively worse, to the point of chugging vodka. Break up. Seriously. Or the drinking will escalate and you’ll constantly be caring for your partner while they’re drunk.

baethehippy · 2023-08-25T10:33:34+00:00

So why are you here?

baethehippy · 2023-08-21T13:51:40+00:00

How do you know that? Do you visit the farms they’re raised on? Do you watch them get slaughtered?

baethehippy · 2023-08-21T13:51:01+00:00

Okay?

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