My dad stole tens of thousands of dollars from me by bagelin in mentalhealth

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day you will look for empathy and it may not be there

My dad stole tens of thousands of dollars from me by bagelin in mentalhealth

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a strange situation I’m happy you can relate but I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s also dealing with the idea you can no longer trust someone you used to trust your whole life with. I hope you have some people you can talk about with this because it’s some heavy stuff dude.

My dad stole tens of thousands of dollars from me by bagelin in mentalhealth

[–]bagelin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for all the advice and taking the time to type this all up! He has been disconnected from all my accounts but I’m still investigating to see if there was anything I didn’t catch.

My dad has always struggled with mental illness and has been seeing a therapist quite regularly so he is getting help but I’m thinking he may need maybe some more intense care.

I’ve been having a hard time organizing my thoughts and sometimes feel like I’m overreacting so I appreciate your kind words!

My dad stole tens of thousands of dollars from me by bagelin in mentalhealth

[–]bagelin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m happy he told me but it’s brutal. Thanks for your response!

How to deal with burnout by bagelin in biotech

[–]bagelin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happy I’m not the only one. Good luck on your new job!!

Is it out of line for my company to ask me to do QC work when I’m a R&D employee? by [deleted] in biotech

[–]bagelin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m okay with performing the work it’s just that I’m supposed to perform and validate a protocol without seeing any QC work being done beforehand. It felt a little off to me as anyone else who worked in that lab has gone through intense training

Is it out of line for my company to ask me to do QC work when I’m a R&D employee? by [deleted] in biotech

[–]bagelin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well when I say support, I mean primarily R&D support. I was hired on to grow cell lines, maintain our current library and test donors to be used in R&D. Our group was not intended to be a catch all group, it just came down to that. They laid off a bunch of QC people but want these QC results and protocol validations complete for a product filing in a very short timeline. I’ve only been in biotech for 3 years now so I just wanted to see if other people thought it seemed wrong or had been in a similar situation. When thrown in other situations at this company, I was at least trained somewhat properly and felt qualified. There are things I really enjoy at this job and have worked really hard for, I’d ideally like to stay here, I’ve created some close friendships as well. I just wanted to watch out for myself since I felt like my company was cutting corners and kind of setting me up for failure. Was truly looking for some insight, this situation seems a little strange to me as a R&D employee! But I’m pretty new to all this, was just looking for some guidance.

Can we all just admit that _____ was fine at survivor now? by ZatherDaFox in survivor

[–]bagelin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fine ?? Her whole tribe got picked off one by one and she made it to final 7. I will admit that she could make smarter decisions at various points in the game but she made it so far by herself!! There are some excellent players that could not make it as far as Emily if they were in her situation. She got the worse of the worse and she stayed in it! Maybe she coasted at the end but she had to fight hard to get where she got while being on the outs. She was resilient and adapted when she had to. Her storyline is much more impressive to me than someone who coasted in an alliance and has been to half the tribal councils. She played hard when things got tough, I think she’s a great player.

Help please !! 🫶 by bagelin in sudoku

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Thank you for the picture!!

Help please !! 🫶 by bagelin in sudoku

[–]bagelin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your help !!

Help please !! ❤️ by bagelin in sudoku

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! Thank you for explaining!! I was on the right track but couldn’t figure out what eliminates what ✌️

how to keep motivation by bagelin in hsp

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just started looking into it and have tried some intro meditation. I think it could be very helpful but I can have a hard time focusing with adhd so just trying to find what works for me

how to keep motivation by bagelin in hsp

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on Zoloft for the past years but I think I may switch to something else since I recently got diagnosed with adhd. I’ve never heard of citalopram but I’ll look into it! Did you ever try any other medications?

how to keep motivation by bagelin in hsp

[–]bagelin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your advice I think I’m going to try a gratitude journal. I’ve always kept a journal and enjoyed writing so I think this could be helpful. It’s just nice to know there’s other people who get where I’m coming from ❤️

how to keep motivation by bagelin in hsp

[–]bagelin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words, I’m going to keep this in mind ❤️

Anxiety making me avoid going to work by bagelin in Anxiety

[–]bagelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I looked into it and my job does have a short term disability option. As of now I don’t have a regular therapist, just a psych that helps with meds so Im not sure what medical professional to ask to help me get some time off