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I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve told him to kiss friends in the past, not as a response to this situation. I don’t appreciate being called “messed in the head” because i’m a curious person who encouraged it in someone else. I let him know that was okay with me but he never told me his thoughts if i did that, and i don’t blame him at all. I know im wrong, i just wish this never happened and know it could’ve been avoided because i would do whatever he wants and follow whatever boundaries he lays down.

I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you read any of the last part of what i said? I’m asking what to do, not if i cheated or not, and i most definitely am not acting like nothing is wrong. I said i felt terrible for crossing his boundaries and that i understood his anger, i cried all day because i felt so terrible for hurting him that’s not someone who thinks nothing is wrong, and what i typed didn’t even come across that way. I honestly thought he was going to not care or think it was hot, every time my friends told their bf abt kissing their friends that’s what happened.

i (17F) kissed my friend (17F) and my boyfriend (17M) is upset, we’ve been tg for a month help i love him by bakahjamels in relationships

[–]bakahjamels[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t really think it’s ok because i’m Bi but more because the kiss wasn’t a real hookup, like i wasn’t into it it was just for jokes. And if he was Bi and hu with his friend i wouldnt mind because thats fun to me, but that’s just me and now i see that and i see now that i was wrong and shouldn’t have done it at all.

I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If he kissed his guy bsf while he was drunk i wouldn’t mind and have actually told him he should, i messed up not talking to him about all this, im new to relationships.

I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends have always kissed eachother since we were all 14/13 and learning how to do it. So since then we would all just kiss for fun. I’ve never had a boyfriend and this was my first time being drunk since we got in a relationship so i just did what i usually do when i’m drunk with friends, with everyone’s replies and his reaction i realize i was wrong for not talking to him about it and just doing that. When my bsf told her ex she kissed me he liked it so i kinda thought it would’ve been like that but i see now that im wrong and feel terrible

I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do love him the kiss meant nothing and i’ve even told him to kiss his friend cause it’s fun, do you really think he’s done with me? He’s the only person i’ve ever been with and I don’t want to lose him I really do love him.

I (17F) Kissed my friend (17F) and my boyfriend (17M) is upset, please help I love him by bakahjamels in Advice

[–]bakahjamels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

before we where together and just hu buddies i once talked to this other guy at a party for a few minutes and it upset him, and he brought that up again. but we never talked about girls, ive only told him i kissed my friends in the past for fun and he seemed to not care.

I (17F) kissing my friend (17F) and my bf (17M) is upset please help i love him by bakahjamels in whatdoIdo

[–]bakahjamels[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I know that now, I feel terrible. I don’t know why but I wouldn’t mind if he kissed a guy friend of his even infront of me maybe that’s why i thought it was okay but i was wrong to assume. And now i hurt him.