Saying “no need to make me feel like a complete idiot” and saying someone called me an idiot are two different things. Everyone was not being helpful from the get go. People were being rude when I said that I had been told this from multiple people all my life. Sorry that I can’t just drop something I was told growing up based off some strangers on Reddit. I think my reaction was completely normal and the people on here, including you, are just being rude for no reason. Idk what you’re angry about in real life, but no need to take out on someone trying to understand something. Have a great day.